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'Emergency Contact' explores love in the age of modern technology

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4.2672 Ratings

🗓️ 27 January 2026

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

Content warning: this episode contains discussions of sexual assault.


It’s not breaking news that technology has seeped into modern dating culture. Screens make it easier for us to meet people, but does this convenience trigger a loss of genuine connection? In Mary H.K. Choi’s Emergency Contact, two young lovers are put to the test when their devices become an unwanted third party in their relationship. In today’s episode, Choi joins NPR’s Lulu Navarro for a conversation about her debut novel, and how teenagers can seek meaningful connections with each other beyond a phone screen.


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0:00.0

Hey, it's Empire's book at the day. I'm Andrew Limbong. Mary H.K. Choi's debut novel,

0:07.0

Emergency Contacts, came out in 2018. It's a novel about young lovers finding it hard to truly

0:13.9

connect, despite all the conveniences that modern technology affords them. Again, the book came out

0:19.5

in 2018, and in a lot of ways,

0:22.2

the things Choi addressed in the novel have only gotten more timely, more relatable.

0:27.5

So I want that to play you this interview she did when the book came out talking to then

0:31.2

NPR host Lulu Garcia-Navarro about how the internet makes teens feel hopeless and depressed,

0:40.2

but also how there's a way through that. That's coming up.

0:42.0

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wise.com. T's and Cs apply. How do we find a real connection in a device-reliant world? In Mary H.K. Choi's

1:05.1

debut novel, Emergency Contact, Penny and Sam strike up a text-based romance and soon become, take your phone to the

1:12.4

bathroom inseparable. But for different reasons, they have trouble making it real. Mary H.K. Choi joins

1:18.3

me now from our studios in Culver City, California to talk about her book. Hi. Hi, how are you?

1:23.5

I'm great. So I guess let's start with these two characters, Penny and Sam. Who are they at the start of this book?

1:32.5

So at the start, Penny, who is a Korean-American person, is going off to college. And Sam is in the throes of the worst breakup, he's kind of, he's homeless adjacent, and he's dealing with a lot of anxiety and panic.

1:50.1

And they kind of have this, not a meat cute, which is what they're normally called when you have romantic leads meeting.

1:58.8

It was a meat anxiety.

2:00.4

Yes, it's definitely sort of meat harrowing rather than

2:03.3

meet cute. Sam sort of has this panic attack on the street and Penny, who is the type of person

2:10.1

who would normally just sort of keep it moving and be like, ooh, someone else will deal

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