Be the guy who embraces the ugly, the miserable.

Be the guy who embraces hard work, the grind.

Don't be afraid of being hurt.

Don't be afraid of sacrifice to some blood.

It's the moments in life, the decisions you make on a moment-to- to moment basis that add up to be the guy or not the guy.

Tonight I did something, you know, that feel more of a guy for me, who I am, my guy.

Make the hard decisions, make the sacrifices, make the unpopular decisions,

and become comfortable in your own skin.

And if you are not a person that you are comfortable being alone with,

that is the one person in this universe that you have full power,

full right and full responsibility to change.

If you had to create a human, what would you put them through to make them tough?

It probably wouldn't be a really chill life.

What would you put them through to make them patient?

You probably wouldn't give them things immediately.

And so it's like we want these trades, but each of the traits has a price tag attached to it.

And it's just like, do you want to pay the price tag to get the thing?

And so I think if people reframe the period of life that they're going through as the price that they're paying out of their wallet,

but the wallet is their time, as the seconds of life that they're trading for it, Then I think more people will be willing to make the trade. Because at least when I look at myself,

like when I'm 80-something years old, I'm looking back in my life,

I want to have these traits.

But in order to have those traits, I know I have to go through these things.

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