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The Overwhelmed Brain

Email grab bag 5 - Codependent and stuck - New on the job - Getting a raise - Vague signals while dating

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert

Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.52K Ratings

🗓️ 17 July 2022

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

Hundreds of emails, so little time. I tackle three messages. One from a woman stuck in a codependent relationship wanting to know how to find peace. Another from someone trying to connect with people at a new job. Then I talk about steps to take to get a raise. Then finally, the third email from someone getting ambiguous signals while dating. This episode is packed!

Transcript

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0:00.0

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0:15.4

In the Healed Being program, I talk about the threshold. If you've heard someone that you care

0:20.3

about over and over again, they're going to reach their breaking point. Their threshold will be met

0:26.0

and at that point, either you have to change or they'll leave. And that's if you're lucky.

0:31.3

Sometimes when the threshold is met, they leave whether you change or not. My advice

0:36.4

avoid the threshold at all costs. If you're doing behavior that hurts someone you love,

0:41.6

work on it, heal it. If you don't, they may not want to continue to be around you.

0:45.7

If this sounds familiar to you and you'd like to do whatever you can to avoid the threshold,

0:49.7

or if it's already too late, but you still want to try to resolve things,

0:53.1

HealedBeing.com might be your best chance at reconciliation.

0:57.8

Life presents the toughest challenges. Every day you are faced with decisions that test your

1:03.2

ability to express who you really want to be in this world. We're told to keep saying

1:08.0

affirmations and keep thinking positively, but what do you do when that stuff doesn't work?

1:14.0

Welcome to the overwhelmed brain where you'll learn to make decisions that are right for you

1:18.6

so that you can create the life you want now.

1:33.7

Hey, this is Paul Coliani and I want to help you learn the skill set you need to deal with

1:38.0

life's challenges in the most emotionally intelligent way. This show consists of my personal

1:43.2

opinions and is meant for informational purposes only. I'll seek a professional for your mental

1:47.8

health and well-being. If you are new to the show, go to the overwhelmed brain.com, try the

1:53.6

search field and you'll find almost everything. I've talked about a lot and if you have heard the

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