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The Chase Jarvis LIVE Show

Elle Luna: Should vs Must

The Chase Jarvis LIVE Show

Chase Jarvis

Celebrity, Art, Career, Creativity, Money, Entrepreneurship, Self-improvement, Education, Careers, Writing, Interview, Investment, Influencer, Business, Photography

4.8641 Ratings

🗓️ 2 February 2017

⏱️ 79 minutes

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Summary

If you’ve ever asked yourself - as almost all of us have - “how can I find and follow my calling and my passion,” then you’re going to get a lot out of this conversation. Elle has a book describing her own search for an answer to this question which is called “The Crossroads of Should And Must” which explores the tension between the expectations that parents, friends, and culture put on us (what she calls “should”) and who we are and what we know to be true (what she calls “must”). 

Today on the podcast,

She breaks work down into 3 categories: jobs, careers and callings. So many of us are stuck in one of the first 2, looking for a way to get to the 3rd.

* Accountability comes up again - a common theme in a lot of these conversations as a really key part of the creative process, to help get us across the finish line and actually COMPLETE our ideas. For Elle, the key is attaching a human to it - she says “if someone I love is counting on me to deliver something, I won’t let them down.”

* Another familiar theme that comes up again is structure- some creatives resist structure, but I am a firm and passionate believer that structure doesn’t hinder creativity, it helps it. Elle talks about how she uses structure-- one of her little hacks is setting a kitchen timer in 17 minute increments, and during that 17 minutes she can’t deviate from the task at hand.

Enjoy!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello everybody, I am Chase Jarvis.

0:07.1

Welcome to another episode of the Chase Jarvis live show here on Creative Live.

0:11.6

In case this is your first episode, which it better not be, but if you are, or if it is, rather, welcome to the show.

0:18.7

This is your show, this is where I sit down with the world's top

0:21.2

creatives entrepreneurs and thought leaders and I eke out of their very very dense brains

0:27.8

the most actionable valuable insights that I can with the goal of helping you live your dreams

0:33.0

and career in hobby and in life my guest today is L Elle Luna. You're going to love this episode.

0:40.4

The first time I met Elle was at a cocktail party by the renowned, this is going to sound like a

0:47.3

story. It's a story, but it's a real story. So by the renowned neuropsychologist Adam Gazali,

0:53.8

he has this thing called the first Friday at his house in San Francisco.

0:57.5

And you know, we just bump into somebody and you're like, oh, hey, I'm Chaser.

1:00.4

And she says, I'm Al.

1:01.5

And we start talking.

1:02.1

And it was a fascinating conversation.

1:04.6

And at the end of the conversation, I was like, who?

1:06.4

What, what just happened?

1:08.2

Who was that?

1:09.3

So, you know, we happened to drift apart at the party. I didn't care of her name. I mean, I got her name, but I didn't, I didn't like, I need to know you personally. Like, let's have coffee. And then I see this talk on creative mornings, which I think you're familiar with creative mornings. If you're not, you should. And this woman just crushes this talk.

1:28.7

And this talk is called the intersection of should and must.

1:32.3

Actually, no, sorry, the crossroads of should and must.

1:36.0

And if you've ever asked yourself, as almost all of us have, how can I pursue my calling

1:42.2

and my passion, then A, you're going to love this show.

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