Hey dear listeners, today's guest is Elizabeth Berkley-Loren, who you know, of course,

from the original save by the bell, the cult classic showgirls, and now the new save by the bell

on peacock. Elizabeth has that ability to make you feel like you're the center of the world,

and I hope you get the same feeling from listening to her. After talking to Elizabeth,

I'm joined again by psychotherapist, author, and clinical director of the Center for Healthy Sex

in Los Angeles, Dr. Alex Catahoccus. In contrast to my random suggestions, Dr. Alex has some really

great advice. As always, thank you so much for listening and sharing your stories with us.

If you want to get in touch, please reach out with a link on our website at nqualify.com.

Okay, here's Elizabeth.

Ladies and gentlemen, you are listening to on Qualified with your host, Ana Ferris.

Hi Elizabeth! Oh my gosh, how are you? I am great, I'm so happy to be talking to you.

You as well, I have been a fan for a long, long time. You know, when ladies in our industry

finally get to connect, tell me if you feel this way, I think in our minds that there's like a

shortage of things, so whether it's opportunity, or let's say in college, or high school like the guy,

or whatever friend group, there's this lack mentality that we kind of grow up with. There was a

whole pack of us that would audition against each other, and there was more of a competitive spirit,

or more of not a desperation, but like deep desire and ambition. And in our industry, one can make

a big change. One job can do that. So, you know, you fall under the spell of this thing that can

make or break you. And so therefore, yeah, you may not be bonding as much with this, let's say,

the handful of girls that you go up against. Yeah, I mean, I always hoped that I was sending out a

good energy, but it's competitive, and it's a tough business, right? I think also motherhood changes

you. Our little guys are one month apart, by the way. Really? Yeah, two little boys. Sky? Yeah,

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