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Sex With Emily

Ejaculation Education w/ Gabrielle Blair

Sex With Emily

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 31 May 2024

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Why is it that vulva owners are the ones tasked with preventing pregnancy? That’s the burning question we’ve all been thinking about since 2017. On today’s throwback show, we’re diving into this hot topic with Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the mastermind behind a viral thread and the book, Ejaculate Responsibly. Joining us is my dear friend, anthropologist, and author, Dr. Wednesday Martin, to help unpack this loaded discussion. In our post-Roe world, Gabrielle—mother of six and a devout Mormon—is fiercely advocating for the importance of women’s lives and their pleasure. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation! In this episode you’ll learn: How society pressures vulva owners to become mothers Why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies How to talk to young penis owners about ejaculating responsibly Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! Gabrielle’s Viral Twitter Thread Ejaculate Responsibly SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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It is not controversial to say that in current practice, in current cultural expectations,

0:09.0

women do the work of pregnancy prevention, period.

0:12.1

And in the case that a pregnancy occurs,

0:14.3

women carry 100% of the burden for the pregnancy.

0:17.0

So all the work of pregnancy prevention

0:19.0

and then all the work of dealing with the burden of a pregnancy.

0:23.1

Whether they decide to have an abortion,

0:25.4

whether they decide to have the baby,

0:26.6

whether they have a miscarriage,

0:27.8

they don't have a choice.

0:28.8

They have to deal with this pregnancy

0:32.2

that they did not cause.

0:36.3

You're listening to Sex with Emily.

0:38.3

I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure

0:41.6

and liberate the conversation around sex.

0:45.0

When it comes to sex, why was the world set up so that

0:48.7

Vova owners are the ones in charge of preventing a pregnancy?

0:51.8

That's the central question of a Twitter thread that went viral in 2018.

0:56.2

And on today's show, I've got Gabriel Stanley Blair,

0:59.4

the author of that thread and a book,

1:01.5

Ejaculate responsibly, here to talk about it. I'm also joined by anthropologist,

1:06.1

author and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin to unpack this fascinating topic.

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