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Dad Tired

Eight Steps To Effective Discipline| 380

Dad Tired

Jerrad Lopes

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

51.4K Ratings

🗓️ 4 December 2023

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Chris shares his eight-step plan for disciplining kids with grace. He walks through real moments from his own family, including what happens when anger shows up and how to lead through it. Drawing from Genesis 3, Chris shares what godly discipline looks like and why it’s about more than just behavior correction.

What You’ll Hear:
• What to do before disciplining your child
• Why expectations matter more than reactions
• How to tell the difference between first, second, and third-degree disobedience
• What it means to discipline with both love and clarity
• Why God’s discipline is the model for our parenting
Tune in for a practical way to discipline with peace and direction 

 Episode Resources:

  1. Samaritan Ministries: https://samaritanministries.org/dadtired
  2. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
  3. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Learn more: https://www.dadtired.com

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey guys, welcome back to the Dad Tired podcast. I'm glad that you're here. If you just stumbled upon the podcast, welcome. We're more than just a podcast. We're a community of men from all over the world who are trying to figure out what does it look like for us personally as dudes to fall more in love with Jesus and then to help our families do the same. We don't take ourselves too seriously, but we do take Jesus seriously. And we're just trying to stumble closer to him

0:21.7

and closer to what it looks like for us to be the men that God's called us to be. So if that resonates

0:26.1

with you, we'd love to have you. I was just listening to the end of last episode, the very, very

0:31.5

end of last episode. You can go back and listen to it from last week. I could hear my daughter

0:35.5

on the recording crying in the background. So that's

0:39.0

like how not professional we are. That's how not polished we are. I didn't even know I have these

0:43.9

like almost completely noise canceling headphones on when I'm recording the podcast. So I didn't know

0:48.6

that there was like screaming going on in the background. I'm sure my wife was real happy about

0:53.1

that. But I didn't even notice until I went back and listened to the episode that my daughter

0:57.5

had just like fallen and was screaming. She's okay. But anyway, so yeah, we're just a bunch of

1:02.3

normal dudes trying to figure out what does it mean for us to leave our family well in the midst

1:07.3

of all this chaos. So you'll probably hear some more screaming in the background.

1:11.8

Really excited to jump into today's episode, speaking of screaming. I did an episode a couple weeks

1:17.3

ago on discipline. And then I asked my buddy Chris, who has been part of the dad's side ministry

1:22.3

now for a couple years, he has five kids. I have four, so he won up to me. And for a period,

1:27.4

he was a single dad. And so I had

1:29.2

asked him, like, dude, can you record an episode on this and just talk us through what it looks like

1:33.8

to discipline well and through the gospel, through the lens of the gospel. And so even though I did

1:39.5

want to not too long ago, I wanted to hear his perspective. And truthfully, like just putting all the cards on

1:44.3

the table, his episode's better. If you're going to pick either going back and listening to mine

1:49.8

or listening to his today, I think Chris is, he just nails it. Like, this is a really, really helpful

1:54.5

episode. So I love what he had to say. And I think it's going to be really helpful for you as well. Before we jump into that, though, I do want to thank my friends over at Samaritan Ministries for sponsoring today's

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