Eight miscarriages echo Mary's grief, Is polygyny Biblical?, and When period cramps prompt masculine wishes. | ACW386
Ask Christopher West
Theology of the Body Institute
4.9 • 549 Ratings
🗓️ 25 May 2026
⏱️ 68 minutes
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Summary
Questions answered this episode:
- I hope you can help connect the dots with something stirring in my heart. In your Marian mystery course, you discussed when the Bible mentions Jerusalem, it's ultimately a reference to Mary, and how a woman opening herself to conception participates in Mary's Fiat. Since then, I've suffered eight miscarriages. On Palm Sunday, hearing Jesus was entering Jerusalem, I felt intense pain. Given the Jerusalem-Mary connection, I thought of my children whose innocent bodies faced death in my womb, reflecting on Mary holding her innocent Son's body. Are these connections appropriate? If Jerusalem represents Mary, why did Jesus enter there to die? How do we connect this to the hope of resurrected life?
- I've recently come across a couple conservative Protestant guys, one a pastor, arguing in favor of polygamy—specifically, polygyny. It got me thinking about why we no longer practice this. They're not arguing to make it standard, but rather to allow it as one of three moral options for some people, alongside celibacy or traditional monogamous marriage. One argument they made is that God never changes. Since saints in the Old Testament practiced this, they argue it is not intrinsically sinful like homosexuality. I realize polygamy can lend itself to a lot of abuse. But, could there be situations where it could be a legitimate God honoring option? If not, why not and is polygamy sinful?
- I'm a 31-year-old single woman. Is it sinful to wonder what it would be like to be a man? Don't get me wrong, I enjoy being a woman. However, it's easy to get frustrated dealing with a monthly period, pain, and PMS. Half of each month feels thrown out of whack, and sometimes I think it would be easier to be a man. I don't want to change my body or gender; I just get frustrated. A friend said these difficulties make us stronger—is she onto something? I pray thanking God for how I was made, but I don't feel all that thankful. Do you have advice?
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| 0:00.0 | Right now, the internet is coaching our kids, and some of the voices on there, they're angry. |
| 0:07.4 | When boys hear that noise on repeat, it shapes how they see themselves. |
| 0:10.7 | Together, with EE, we need to make sure those voices don't win, to coach and guide them on and off the pitch, |
| 0:16.6 | making space for real conversations, building our boys up every chance we get. |
| 0:21.1 | Yes, boys. |
| 0:21.8 | As proud partner of the national teams, |
| 0:23.7 | EE has support and guidance to help build all our boys up |
| 0:26.8 | on and off the pitch. |
| 0:28.3 | Search E.E. Yes, boys. |
| 0:30.2 | Right, home from work. |
| 0:31.9 | Walk the dog. |
| 0:33.3 | Kids are back. |
| 0:34.4 | Mom. |
| 0:35.1 | Up the stairs for something. |
| 0:37.9 | Ugh. Back down. |
| 0:39.3 | No idea what I went up for. |
| 0:42.0 | Mom, what's for dinner? |
| 0:43.7 | Chop, sizzle, done. |
| 0:47.2 | Hello Fresh can't slow life down, |
| 0:49.2 | but it makes bringing everyone together around the table a whole lot easier. |
| 0:53.1 | So its phones down, forks up. |
| 0:55.6 | Hello, Fresh. |
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