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Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakat

My brothers and sisters, when you address your children

Make sure that you use loving words. They begin to believe the words that you use

For them or when addressing them

If you were to call them bad words, you know, whatever those bad words are

They begin to believe those words and they do develop a mental problem at times

psychological emotional so much damage and

It's sometimes

Is traced back to simple words that you used on your own loved ones that were derogatory

low cheap words

Please don't do that use words of love and respect even when correcting them

You can correct them you can actually reprimand them but using respectful terms

Now we do have people who have a habit of using the cheapest and the worst of words

You call your child with names of animals you call your child

Saying that they're stupid idiot-thick whatever else it may be may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala make us from those who are conscious of this

It definitely causes damage in the long term

They definitely develop a complex that is very very dangerous

So I thought I just pause for a moment to say if you really fear Allah and if you are really concerned about the day

You're going to be meeting with Allah then address people with respect even when you disagree with them completely

Especially your children when reprimanding them when correcting them when telling them something when guiding them teaching them

Remember to use the best words and the most respectful words because I promise you Allah is going to ask you about this and you won't have a reply

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