Eaton & The Controlling Manipulative Narcissist | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 20 January 2025

⏱️ 90 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Eaton shares her story of domestic violence, coercive control, and narcissistic abuse. As an immigrant to London, Eaton dealt with the landmines of people trying to take advantage of her everywhere. When Eaton met her husband, he love-bombed her into feeling safe with him. However, that changed quickly when the physical abuse began, and that turned into a 20-year battle for survival. It's a story of love bombing, core beliefs, inter-generational trauma, jealousy, control, manipulation, immigration issues, financial abuse, mental health, coping mechanisms, self-acceptance, trauma bonds, divorce process, personal identity, resilience, healing journeys, isolation, put downs, changing tactics, sexual abuse, and the imperfect victim. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse and sexual abuse. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Eaton,
0:06.8	and Eaton was in a relationship with a narcissistic physical abuser.
0:11.6	It's a story of core beliefs, manipulation, immigrant abuse, isolation, changing tactics,
0:19.6	and the imperfect victim.
0:48.5	Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today we have Eaton. How are you? I'm excellent. Thank you so much for having me. How are you? I am doing well. Thank you for asking.
0:57.7	And if you want to be a guest like Eaton is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com and click on the guest form button at the top of the page.
1:06.1	There you can read all of our instructions and please read them all and either send us an email at narcissist
1:11.3	apocalypse at gmail.com or fill out the guest form and press the submit button and please do
1:16.8	send it in the format that we ask for and we do have a content warning for this episode as we do
1:22.0	discuss physical abuse and sexual abuse in this episode so that is your content warning for today. And today you're going
1:29.1	to hear Eaton's story. And Eaton was the imperfect victim in many ways. And I think it's important
1:35.0	to hear these stories. So a really big thank you to Eaton for being here with us today. And I'm
1:41.3	going to get out of my way and your way. Eaton, the floor is now
1:45.7	yours. Thank you. I'm going to start with a bit of a prologue or maybe like the origin story
1:57.1	because I thought about how superheroes always have origin stories and they usually
2:01.5	quite adverse circumstance.
2:04.1	That's how they're born.
2:05.7	And I think that abuse survivors are similar in that way.
2:12.9	So my origin story goes back to my child, but like loads of those stories do.
2:18.0	And I'm not going to dwell for a very long time because I do have 20 years worth of abuse history to get through.
2:26.1	But I was brought up with three core beliefs.
2:31.8	And you can, you know, I'm sure you can use your imagination and kind of guess how a child
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