E943 Ask Nick - My Baby Daddy Tried To Hook Up With My Sister
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
4 • 24.2K Ratings
🗓️ 2 June 2025
⏱️ 117 minutes
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Summary
Our first caller wants to know how she can stop comparing her great current relationship to a toxic old one? Our second caller’s boyfriend thinks women's suffrage was a mistake. And, our third caller is wondering if it’s time to cut her deadbeat baby daddy out of her life for good?
“The reality that you're gonna have to face is that you will never be able to prevent or guarantee heartbreak."
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Timestamps:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:13) - Caller One
(50:40) - Caller Two
(01:25:16) - Caller Three
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| 0:00.0 | How's it going. |
| 0:14.3 | Hi, I'm Josephian and I'm 31 years old, and I'm struggling to stop comparing my very old, toxic relationship to my |
| 0:24.7 | very happy new one. |
| 0:26.5 | So you're in a relationship? |
| 0:28.1 | I am, yes. |
| 0:28.8 | What do you compare the most? |
| 0:30.4 | Like what do you, yeah, describe what do you mean by comparing? |
| 0:34.9 | Yeah, I can give some context. |
| 0:36.8 | So me and my current partner have been together for about |
| 0:41.1 | eight months. He's amazing. Like, he's definitely the healthiest person I've ever been with. He's so |
| 0:47.1 | kind. It's insane. I'm so in love with him. But what ends up happening, so my prior relationship that I find myself comparing, |
| 0:58.5 | he had a lot of like drinking problems to say the least. And I find myself like anytime my current |
| 1:05.6 | partner is like a little intoxicated, he's, I mean, he drinks a lot, but not in large amounts, |
| 1:14.5 | if that makes sense. So like, he's like a beer, a day kind of guy. And I find myself just |
| 1:20.1 | getting triggered by it. Like, I get really irritated and I'm not very nice about it. |
| 1:26.5 | Okay. Well, it's good to recognize. |
| 1:29.9 | Yeah, which is honestly, it's very hypocritical because I'm, I'm like, I'm, I could |
| 1:36.0 | probably say I'm a fairly big drinker. |
| 1:38.3 | I'm in liquor sales. |
| 1:40.1 | So I am around alcohol like every single day and I socially drink quite a bit. |
| 1:48.0 | Okay. What else? I mean, is that the big, is there anything else that you're comparing? |
| 1:51.8 | Or is that just the real? I think that's honestly the biggest thing. It's, um, it's and then it, I mean, |
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