E905 Ask Nick - Hope is Not Your Friend
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
4 • 24.2K Ratings
🗓️ 24 March 2025
⏱️ 103 minutes
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Summary
Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition!
Our first caller’s boyfriend can’t do the dishes. Our second caller is wondering if she’s too dickmatized by the last guy she was talking to. And, our third caller is struggling to set boundaries with her mom.
“You're still talking as if there is something to hold on to."
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Timestamps:
(00:00) - Intro
(00:40) - Caller One
(48:16) - Caller Two
(01:16:28) - Caller Three
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| 0:00.0 | Okay, you guys, for everyone who wants to know, are UDF, down to farm, that is? |
| 0:07.1 | That's right, Farmer wants a wife is back on Fox with four hot new farmers looking for the love of their lives, |
| 0:13.6 | but are these ladies ready to take on the farm life? |
| 0:17.1 | And you know dating one woman has its challenges, but juggling five, |
| 0:20.2 | these farmers are going to have |
| 0:21.5 | their hands full. Don't miss the all-new season of Farmer wants a wife Thursdays on Fox. |
| 0:41.7 | How's it going? |
| 0:46.9 | Good. My name's Ryan. I'm 24 years old and my boyfriend can't do the dishes. |
| 0:49.5 | Say more. I'll elaborate. |
| 0:57.8 | Little context. We've been dating for a little over a year. did like move in very quickly um i would say like within a couple months it was just the most practical thing at the time um so kind of from jump |
| 1:03.9 | i'm a homemaker i cook i clean you know that's just who i am and you're in the honeymoon phase |
| 1:09.3 | you want to be sweet and do all those things. |
| 1:11.7 | Now it's been like a year and a half. |
| 1:14.4 | And he has not ever touched a dish. |
| 1:18.9 | He only takes the trash out if I ask. |
| 1:22.0 | He is, I want to also say like kind in a thousand other ways. |
| 1:27.4 | But like for some reason, |
| 1:29.1 | things can never be 50-50. And I've asked plenty of times for, you know, a little bit of help |
| 1:36.6 | and whatnot and don't get any. So in addition to not doing dishes, he doesn't do anything other |
| 1:42.6 | than maybe take the garbage out when you ask. |
| 1:45.7 | Yeah, like any household responsibility, whether it is paying utilities, taking trash out. |
| 1:53.2 | He doesn't pay the bills? He feeds the dogs. We share the finances. We're very intertwined in a team |
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