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So we're just going to keep the conversation going with Zane and Desi.

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Welcome.

Where are your peers not, you know, feel inadequate as men?

Do you have kind of a sense of that?

What about you?

Of course, like, career is the big one that men are trying to figure out in their 20s right now.

Like, who are they going to be?

What are they going to provide? What do they have to

offer the world around them? And I think all of my guy friends are trying to figure that out. And

then simultaneously, what do I have to offer a woman? And am I valued? Am I seen, am I wanted or am I unwanted?

And guys, I think, explore that in healthy and unhealthy ways, trying to discover if they're

desirable in any sort of way, whether that's, you know, careerism, full-blown, like, head down, I don't care what anybody else is doing.

I'm going to leave all my relationships behind because once I get that career,

then people will finally see me as a man.

Yes.

Or I'm going to sleep with as many women as possible or just be like the coolest guy by whatever standard you might measure that.

And then I'll know that like you said best, I'm dangerous.

And I've loved that term because I want to feel dangerous.

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