How's it going?

Good.

Good.

My name is Stacy.

I'm 30 from Toronto, Ontario.

My best friend married my first cousin, and I need to know if I should cut her off.

Sounds like maybe she cut you off. It sounds like she did. Well, what do you mean by cut her off exactly?

As opposed to like, I don't know, maybe just like having a conversation with her about how you feel about it.

That is possible. I just feel like I expressed to her prior to her getting married that if she did have an elopement without this like inviting me or she knew that she was going to elope, that if she did that, I would be personally upset about it because she's my best friend. I introduced her to my cousin and I expressed my feelings

prior to and she completely disregarded how I felt. Okay, but to be clear, your friend, a lope?

She did a lope, yes. She ended up eloping and they invited all of his siblings and one of our other

uncles to be a part of it.

So she knew on Monday that she was going to get married on Thursday.

And then she sent me a photo Thursday night of her holding a marriage certificate.

Don't you think cutting her off is a bit hasty?

So since I've emailed you, what I've considered is that I don't need to cut her off. I can just keep it super amicable and cordial, but there's a sticky situation here. My best friend and I, we own a business together and we operate together. So we have a cleaning business and I knew that eventually she wouldn't

need to move away. And so I was ready to just kind of take my losses and just be cordial with her

and keep it peaceful. And she has since messaged me saying she wants out of the business completely.

Is this before or after she got married?

This was after she got married.

So she had messaged me and I told her like, congratulations.

I would love to have a conversation with you once you get back into town.

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