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The Viall Files

E734 Ask Nick - My Husband’s a Shopaholic

The Viall Files

Nick Viall

Society & Culture, Relationships, After Shows, Tv & Film

424.2K Ratings

🗓️ 15 April 2024

⏱️ 121 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! Before we get to our callers, we talk about last week’s caller… A lot of you wanted to know our thoughts, and some of you even wrote in!

Our first caller had her engagement party spoiled by her “best friend,” who proceeded to bail on said party. She is afraid to confront her friend over this blunder and reconsider her as a bridesmaid. Our second caller got dumped over a spicy encounter she had over two years ago, long before they met. She struggles to acknowledge his hypocrisy and worries about sharing her history with future partners. Our final caller finds herself in a financial bind because of her “shopaholic” husband. Should she consider surrogacy to pay off her extreme debt? Or should she help her husband get to the root of his spending problem?

“Stop having important conversations via text.”

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Transcript

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0:00.0

You're crazy.

0:02.8

crazy.

0:03.8

What's going to?

0:04.8

What's going on? What's going on everybody? Welcome back to another episode of the Vile

0:19.5

files Ask Nick

0:23.4

joint by the household of Lea and Ellie.

0:27.8

Hello, Lays.

0:28.8

Sweet boy Justin is working on the Monica Sizzle.

0:32.1

He is hard at work. he's hard at work he's really focused on this

0:36.0

Justin's always really been the monica we have Justin to think for making sure that

0:40.6

Monica came out here he was always in my ear telling me we should do it.

0:45.4

And it really, he was right about that one.

0:47.4

Pay it off?

0:48.4

Pay it off. Anyways, we got a great episode for you. First I wanted to do a little call back to last week. Our our caller who was in the open relationship, but she originally called in, what was her headline? I'm in a, I'm dating one guy and thinking about sleeping with his friend can you

1:06.5

date to friends in the same group yeah can you sleep with two guys in the same group yeah

1:11.6

she thought that was like her big question and with two. Yeah. Yeah.

1:13.0

She thought that was like her big question and as often is the case with us, Nick.

1:17.2

We peeled back some more layers.

1:18.6

We got to the real issue at hand.

1:20.6

You know, the more I thought about that call, to me like the big takeaway of that call, like the lesson I hope we all learn from that call, regardless if you are trying to have sex with a couple of friends or if you're in an open relationship, that really wasn't the point.

1:35.3

Like this call was a teachable moment for everyone who listened to this call.

1:40.5

Because this call was a reminder, it should be a reminder to us all, it was a reminder to me of just how good we are at convincing ourselves of things in general. And convincing ourselves of things in general and convincing ourselves of things that ultimately

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