E634 Ask Nick - My Cousin Is Hitting on Me
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
4 • 24.2K Ratings
🗓️ 5 September 2023
⏱️ 97 minutes
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Summary
Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss Birthday Party themes, what we love about Ali, and 5-year plans. We also read a submission from someone who can’t get past icks. Is it possible to move on from an ick? And what are icks, really? We then get to our callers.
Our first caller’s cousin has been hitting on her. Since becoming estranged from their family, he’s been messaging her on Facebook that he’s always been attracted to her and thinks they should date. However, recently he’s been making amends, and has been invited to a family wedding. She’s anxious to see him and unsure how to interact in person. Our second caller is considering getting back together with her ex. They dated for 3 years, and broke up 5 years ago, and is wondering if he’s changed enough to be able to start again but make it work this time. Our final caller is wondering how to stop being the girl before the girlfriend. She has fallen into a pattern where the men she’s in situationships with immediately jump into relationships right after her. She’s not sure whether it’s the men she’s choosing to invest in, or if she herself is just not ready for a relationship.
“You don’t fall into a situationship. You accept a situationship.”
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| 0:00.0 | What's going on, everybody? Welcome back to another episode of the Valfaul's |
| 0:17.5 | Ass Nick edition. I'm your host Nick Joane by the household of Adley and Amanda. |
| 0:22.8 | That lady is how it's, how's it going? |
| 0:25.0 | Driving, driving, bopping, vibing. Going on, what's new? |
| 0:30.8 | One of the reasons I feel like I am riding a high is because I made it back in time to attend |
| 0:35.6 | Ali's birthday. Yeah, she did. |
| 0:37.9 | That was a must for me when I was figuring out travel plans. |
| 0:41.4 | And I feel like it was so fun to see you. How was like, you did a killer party? |
| 0:47.2 | You did a killer. It was so fun to see you. It was, I missed you. You did a killer party. |
| 0:51.6 | I feel like I want you to showcase the theme a little bit because it was very well |
| 0:54.8 | executed. Oh, thank you. Thank you very much. It was a parent-trapped themed birthday party |
| 1:00.0 | as Meredith Blake was 26. I was turning 26. I thought it would be fun. We had a lot of great |
| 1:06.0 | decor. People came as Chessie, the butler, Diego and Igor came as the twins. Love that. |
| 1:12.6 | They had red wigs. No, it was really, really fun. I would say so you had stickers. |
| 1:17.2 | Camp Walden stickers. People could put on their hats. It was a very, I think it was the perfect |
| 1:21.2 | amount of theme because you know with like birthday parties that's like that fine line of like, |
| 1:26.0 | it's fun. Sometimes when you have a theme and it can be a really good like level up for a party, |
| 1:30.3 | but then sometimes it's like, okay, mate, it's not Halloween. Do you know what I mean? How do you |
| 1:34.7 | feel about theme birthday parties next? Next like, I drink a water. I'm not a party planner, |
| 1:39.6 | you know? I celebrate them. I encourage, you know, I don't care for me, but you know, |
| 1:46.0 | the Alice party was great. It was epic. I don't know if I'm like been a theme guy for a party. |
| 1:51.4 | But that's just me. This is a personal choice. That's fine. I feel like you need a theme. |
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