E618 Ask Nick - My Online Situationship Owes Me Thousands
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
4 • 24.2K Ratings
🗓️ 31 July 2023
⏱️ 99 minutes
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Summary
Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss the surprisingly high percentage of doctors and nurses that cheat on their partners, and whether or not you should give up your seat on an airplane so families can sit together. We then read a written submission–Our writer is in a new relationship with a gentleman, a rarity for her after a string of toxic men. However, she recently ran into said toxic ex, and is worried she’ll fall back into old patterns and ruin things with her new guy by re-exploring her past. Then, we get to our callers.
Our first caller was ghosted three times by someone who conned her out of over $1,000, but she can’t stop thinking about what they could have been. This mutual friend, who she never actually met in person, convinced her to send him money to invest in stocks. After three years, she’s not sure if she’ll ever see that money, or him. Our second caller’s partner’s situational health issues have been affecting her attraction to him. She has been very patient, but doesn’t feel he’s putting as much effort into being his best self as she is into supporting him. She’s not sure on how to get through to him on this topic. Our final caller took back her boyfriend after he proposed to her when they were broken up, but is questioning her sanity now. She wants to end the relationship, again, but is worried about taking away a father figure for her children.
“You have created a fantasy in your head about this guy.”
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| 0:00.0 | What's going on, everybody? Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Vow Files |
| 0:20.1 | Ask Nick Edition. I'm your host Nick, joined by Ali, Amanda and Derek of the Household. |
| 0:27.5 | How do we have a good episode for you? What's going on, everybody? So all you nurses |
| 0:32.2 | be cheating. Okay. I think it's important. You nurses be cheating. Well, yeah, it's |
| 0:37.1 | more than male nurses. It is more male nurses. Doctors and nurses. It's not just nurses. |
| 0:42.6 | I don't want to attack the nursing. So your sister, my sister's cheating. 100 when I think |
| 0:47.7 | about cheaters. So yeah, they just really did a survey, a study that it said the headline |
| 0:53.9 | was nurses cheat, cheat more than athletes and musicians and DJs. Infidelity among medical |
| 0:59.6 | doctors and nurses. So the research aimed to know the incidents of and factors related |
| 1:04.1 | to infidelity among doctors and nurses, a descriptive study was carried out in total 367 volunteer |
| 1:11.4 | participants. So also something to flag. These people volunteered this information, completed |
| 1:15.9 | an online survey of them. 21% have or have had an unfaithful relationship. The majority |
| 1:23.6 | 81.7% were doctors. Men were 4.3 times more unfaithful than women with these differences |
| 1:31.0 | being statistically significant. Yeah, those are staggering differences. More times |
| 1:35.5 | is a lot. It will come as a shock to no one that they go on to say that people having |
| 1:39.8 | sex in the doctor's room on duty. We're also typically men. Who's having sex with? |
| 1:44.8 | Does it matter either way? Does it take two to two? Like is it men having sex with men? |
| 1:49.8 | Well, maybe there's like one woman and all the different men. Maybe there's a few |
| 1:54.4 | women. There's like a hottie in billing that like goes in. All the doctors want her. |
| 2:03.4 | I've also heard from people though that like Grey's Anatomy really hypes up the on-call |
| 2:08.2 | room hookup situation. And while it's not unheard of, it's not quite that frequent. People |
| 2:14.2 | aren't hooking up that much. They have to sleep. They got jobs and lives to save. But |
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