E592 Ask Nick - I Need To Stop My Soulmate's Wedding
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
3.8 • 26.3K Ratings
🗓️ 5 June 2023
⏱️ 102 minutes
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Summary
Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we read an email about lifestyle compatibility - our writer lives a fast paced life in the city and has been talking with a guy who lives a much quieter life an hour away. Is that a red flag, or a way to balance each other out? We then get our Breakup Song of the Week submission.
Our first caller's soulmate is marrying someone else, and she wants to speak now before the wedding. We end up drafting (and sending!) a long text message where she confesses her feelings and asks if he would consider trying things again. Our second caller wants to break up with her boyfriend of nearly five years, and he doesn't see it coming. There have been problems throughout their relationship, including him not wanting to go to a wedding with her because he won't know anyone there and she isn't fun enough to make his experience enjoyable. Our final caller matched with her boss on Hinge and is interested in him, but isn't sure what her next move should be. They bantered back and forth in the messages, but she was the last one to reach out.
"I don't think you can go too hard here. You're literally trying to break up an engagement."
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| 0:00.0 | What's going on everybody welcome back to a new and exciting episode of the Valle |
| 0:19.6 | Files ass Nick addition. I'm your host Nick joined by the household of Ali Amanda and |
| 0:25.8 | Derek or the team is finally back Derek's back from Jerry duty anything you want to share |
| 0:31.4 | or dare your Microsoft isn't it now all right. Are you silent or were you silent. |
| 0:35.7 | I was silence Derek's mic's not on just yell Derek. Oh wow. Okay there we go. |
| 0:41.4 | Derek's back from Jerry duty or thank God. What's new? What's going on? What's cracking? What's |
| 0:46.4 | what's happening? Well we got quite a we got a write in that I thought was like a very good |
| 0:52.3 | discussion topic because it pertains to lifestyles and compatibility and so this person wrote in |
| 0:57.8 | saying basically they'd reconnected with someone from who they'd known in high school matched on |
| 1:02.4 | bumble they've been talking starting to date but they have some concerns about like overarching |
| 1:08.2 | compatibility. So what they wrote was I live in the city he lives in our outside of it basically |
| 1:12.9 | where we broke. When he came to see me in the city today he was kind of overwhelmed. I had the |
| 1:18.2 | feeling he was quieter than you. The cars and buses. The bright lights. I had a feeling he was |
| 1:23.7 | quieter than usual. Maybe it was just a nerves but he kept saying how crazy the city is and how |
| 1:28.9 | many people are out and about. I didn't even notice it for me this was a very normal daily life. |
| 1:34.6 | He lives a very quiet life he's doing his master's degree right now while working part time he |
| 1:39.1 | goes to the gym a lot and loves motorcycles. He spends his weekends going on motorcycle rides and |
| 1:44.5 | he has a few close friends nothing too crazy rarely goes out spends a lot of time with family |
| 1:49.0 | it goes to sleep early gets up early sounds like a hoot. We don't know the 87 42 we don't know the |
| 1:55.6 | age and not many people disclose their age unsolicited. If you want but if you want maybe if |
| 2:01.8 | you're writing into ask Nick I feel like yeah the people who write in they should know this show |
| 2:05.5 | it's like the the Reddit threads where it's like I female 25 sure yeah but anyone who's written |
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