E582 Ask Nick - Blowjobs Are Ending My Dates

The Viall Files

Nick Viall

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

3.8 • 26.3K Ratings

🗓️ 15 May 2023

⏱️ 90 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we talk about an engaged man in Vegas who was buying women drinks and potentially trying to cheat on his fiancée (a week before his wedding). We then read an email from a listener who isn't sure if she can handle her ex moving in with her childhood friends.

Our first caller has a pattern of her dates "finishing" too soon. Recently, she's had three separate instances of guys seeming like they're into her and wanting to pursue her, only until they hook up and she's left feeling unsatisfied and confused. We dive into a conversation about modern dating and hook up culture, and when is the right time to have sex with someone you're dating. Our second caller has been dating her boyfriend for five years, but is worried that they're too young to be getting married. There's also been some issues surrounding trust in their relationship after his mistakes, but only she has started therapy because of it. Our final caller is fighting over childcare with her husband - they both work from home and could use some help, but he doesn't want to reach out to his parents and instead insists that they should be doing everything themselves.

"You should expect very little from these guys."

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0:00.0	What's going on everybody welcome back to another incredible just insinxational episode of the Vile files ass Nick edition.
0:22.2	I'm Nick your host joined by the household of Ali Amanda and Derek hope you're all having a great Monday or Tuesday or whether Thursday or Friday or Saturday or Sunday.
0:33.6	Every day you listen to this show how's everyone doing what's going on what's new what's cracking I'm recovering from Vegas I'm still tired but it was excellent.
0:42.8	Yeah, how was it it was good we did a girls trip in Vegas we started planning this in January hot. Why did take you four months to plan.
0:49.1	No, so the idea came to me in January but with everybody schedules I mean you're coordinating four different people especially my sister schedule you gotta pick a weekend where she wasn't working she did work Sunday night so she really had a full week.
1:02.0	Give me the most outrageous thing that happened oh my god okay so we're at the pool Saturday.
1:08.3	We have a day bed we are thriving all of a sudden these drinks show up and the waitress says.
1:15.4	These are sent by the man over there on the other side of the pool in the black baseball hat and come to find out so we have not even spoken to this man he's since a string well we got several rounds from him we start talking him in the pool so but like how many rounds do you drink before use there is any communication what and then he immediately like what no he was he he no because he was getting distracted by other girls like we watched it like he was doing the rounds and so he was going to come over to us but then he started.
1:45.3	Talking to someone else we end up you know chatting with him later in the pool he is a week away from his wedding.
1:52.9	He is on his bachelor trip he's getting married in a week and he's been buying drinks for every girl at the pool and then we're asking him about his wedding he's saying like well you really want me to do this don't you and I'm like don't you get married.
2:07.0	Beauty is name no they're from Riverside though and the wedding is in redlands but it's going to be on Saturday to that slowly.
2:14.2	But by the time this comes out the wedding will be done.
2:18.6	You still know where I believe they are from Riverside California Riverside California and the wedding was going to be in redlands California.
2:27.1	On Saturday what was the date you're in Vegas this was on Saturday May 6 May 6.
2:32.2	What hotel at the link link okay.
2:35.8	Saturday May 6 at the link hotel in Las Vegas.
2:39.2	If you're man.
2:40.2	A bachelor party.
2:41.7	Oh he has a beard.
2:42.8	Is a beard.
2:43.4	Yeah I mean there's really any tattoos.
2:45.8	Not that I can see.
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