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The Viall Files

E576 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Hates How Strong I Am

The Viall Files

Nick Viall

Relationships, Society & Culture, Tv & Film, After Shows

3.826.3K Ratings

🗓️ 1 May 2023

⏱️ 96 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss anniversaries in relationships and read an email from a listener that's debating boycotting her friend's wedding. We then get our latest Breakup Song of the Week submission. 

Our first caller has recently discovered a love of working out, but her boyfriend says he doesn't want to date a girl with a muscular body and is encouraging her to stop going to the gym. Our second caller is worried that she's too attached to her boyfriend after he went on a ten-day boys' trip and she missed him a lot. Our final caller is trying to find the strength to leave her situationship. We discuss how she's been willing to accept the bare minimum, and now needs to enforce boundaries with him. 

"You're not okay with it, and that's what matters."

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Transcript

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0:00.0

What's going on everybody welcome back to another episode of the Vile files ass Nick

0:19.3

edition I'm Nick joined by the household of Ali Amanda and Derek hope is hope hope

0:26.7

I was about to say like hope is like hope is great I guess

0:31.1

I hope you're all having a great day. I know I what what's anything going on with y'all

0:40.0

Anything Derek kind of anniversary. Yeah, I feel like coming off the weekend Derek

0:44.6

I know you had a big one tell us about your anniversary so I

0:47.0

Anniversary I feel like there's always like a fun topic because I feel like people do them a lot of different ways

0:50.8

And they kind of change year to year so for our anniversary we try to do new experiences so

0:56.4

I took my girlfriend is a team. Yeah, I think yeah like a prompt overall

1:02.6

New experience and then each time a specific one. Yeah, I mean yeah this year

1:07.5

We just wanted to switch it up. We'd like to stay local. We did so Sydney's never done a surfing lesson before so we did surfing lessons

1:14.2

And I never had a manny petty before so I got my first manny petty and I can't stop looking at my buff nails

1:20.2

Who liked their new experience?

1:23.0

Better their new first experience. Did you like the manny petty or did she like the surfing better?

1:27.9

We both liked them a lot. Okay. I might start regularly getting

1:31.8

I'm like I might start researching on yelp like it was kind of life-changing not gonna lie

1:38.8

So and I'm an a pet it manny petty is both a manicure and a pedicure

1:42.4

Yeah, as the name might have lie indeed

1:44.7

I just figured that out on the spot. Have you personally gotten a manicure pedicure?

1:50.0

I've gotten a pedicure multiple times. I don't think I've ever gotten a manicure because obviously

1:57.6

Better need one. No one could do better than my teeth. So anyway back to your anniversary

2:02.6

No, she had a good time. She stood up her first wave, which was really impressive

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