E533 Ask Nick Updates Special Episode - Part 4
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
3.8 • 26.3K Ratings
🗓️ 27 January 2023
⏱️ 118 minutes
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Summary
Welcome back to The Viall Files! Today we have another special "where are they now" update show where we give you updates from our past callers, to see what's happened in their situations and relationships since appearing on the show. We bring on our first caller who had a tumultuous relationship with her birth mother and wasn't sure if it was better to forgive her and try to establish peace, or if she should move on and prioritize less toxic relationships. Our second caller had gone to a Harry Styles concert with a platonic guy friend from her apartment building, only to have things turn romantic. Has she listened to Nick's advice and addressed the shift in dynamic head-on? Finally, we get an update from our caller that was thinking about hooking up with her boss's - despite him showing some fuckboy qualities. Whose number did she get at the family holiday party, and who booty called her while with her boss? We also have some written updates! Our caller who was debating moving out from her boyfriend despite being financially dependent, the texting office hours question of if a guy who ended things might want to pursue her in the future, and our caller who needed to break up with her ex - again - all write back in to let us know exactly what happened.
To catch up on all of these callers original questions please see the show numbers:
Original Episode numbers for callers:
- Episode Number: #489 Ask Nick - He Loved Me Until He Knew My Secret
- Episode Number: #510 Ask Nick - Is Harry Styles Our Matchmaker?
- Episode Number: #516 Ask Nick - I Want a Tattoo to Memorialize My Ex
Original Episode numbers for written updates:
- Episode Number: #507 Ask Nick - Bad Sex, Good Connection
- Episode Number: #438 Going Deeper w/ Hannah Berner - Male Engagement Rings & 3rd Wheels
- Episode Number #510 Ask Nick - Is Harry Styles Our Matchmaker?
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| 0:00.0 | What's going on everybody welcome back to another exciting episode of the Vile files the |
| 0:21.2 | update special for January thanks for joining us I know y'all love these episodes and |
| 0:27.3 | we love bringing it to you alli Amanda how are you for you just use to alli being there yeah |
| 0:35.0 | I it seems like it was an incredibly unpopular decision you still read in the YouTube comments |
| 0:40.7 | I yes because I value what people have to say a lot of the time it's like I |
| 0:47.8 | great you're gonna make it worse now no but this it like I do think there's obviously an |
| 0:51.6 | element of discernment where it's like you have to be able to like I understand that |
| 0:55.3 | like it can be very detrimental to have like criticism in one's ear but I think it's like |
| 0:59.6 | valuable to hear what people are responding to into like adapt based on it this is like |
| 1:04.0 | when my sister grew up and she hated Diet Coke and she just made herself keep drinking |
| 1:07.4 | it until she could tolerate it and then she finally liked it that feels like it's giving |
| 1:11.1 | the same energy to Amanda reading I know it'd be like if she drank Diet Coke in one |
| 1:17.6 | in four times it made her vomit and then she kept drinking it and then it just made |
| 1:21.8 | her burp really badly yeah but like so that's what I'm saying like how did you're just |
| 1:25.1 | trying to so you think the benefits of the constructive feedback outweigh the emotional |
| 1:31.9 | impact of the negative unnecessary critical comments yeah because I think I think I also |
| 1:39.6 | and we were talking about this right before about like eyeliner stuff and so I feel like |
| 1:44.4 | this is related so I'm really I'm ready for this connection so I just think like I was |
| 1:50.1 | tremendously for a really long time I had like tremendous insecurities about physical |
| 1:55.6 | stuff in the way I was perceived and so I think there is something like really reclamatory |
| 2:00.1 | and liberating about being like I don't care that this woman thinks my hair was done |
| 2:03.2 | in a gas station bathroom that's a creative thing to say it's an interesting it's an yeah |
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