E530 Ask Nick - F*cking My Friend's Situationship
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
3.8 • 26.3K Ratings
🗓️ 23 January 2023
⏱️ 99 minutes
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Summary
Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships! Before getting to our callers, Nick shares a friend's dating story and how moving too quickly (and ignoring the advice of friends) can lead to a relationship ending. And we have our latest Break Up Song of the Week submission from Amanda before jumping into our callers. Our first caller is currently hooking up with her friend's situationship, and thinks he wants to date her despite not wanting to commit to her friend. Do his actions prove that he's ready for commitment? Our next caller was in an open relationship with her husband due to being long distance. However, he's finally moved home and reestablished monogamy. But our caller is missing the days of sleeping with other people, and doesn't know how to tell her husband. Our final caller is wondering if her boyfriend drinks too much. She's addressed the situation before, but he's lied to her about drinking and how much he's drinking since their conversation. Can this issue be resolved, or will it only continue to get worse?
"Lying to you wasn't as important as having a drink."
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| 0:00.0 | What's going on everybody welcome back to a new and exciting episode of the Vowel Files |
| 0:21.0 | Ask Nick Edition joined by Ali and Amanda and our show dog Kiki. |
| 0:26.9 | Yeah do you want to introduce Kiki because I feel like people watch the videos. |
| 0:32.0 | I mean it's your canine. This is Kiki. What was the question that was phrase |
| 0:37.0 | who claims this dog? I claim the dog. I claim her. Yeah yeah she's the office dog. |
| 0:42.8 | Yeah well behave. I think she's doing well. If anything I've been seeing a couple comments of people asking |
| 0:48.9 | she's okay because she really doesn't move that much. She's a sleeper. She's a sleeper. She's a mellow. |
| 0:53.2 | She's well trained. She's an old rescue dog. She's rescued when she's old. She's even older now. |
| 0:58.4 | She barks only at men. Yep but she likes you too so that's good. Yeah not all men. She doesn't bark |
| 1:04.0 | at you. She's excited to see you this morning. Dog love me. Someone shocking. |
| 1:09.4 | Yeah. I truly love my Jeff but like I don't have the same affinity for all dogs. |
| 1:15.9 | But they all love me. Love it. I don't. I feel like sometimes that's what happens. It's the |
| 1:20.9 | people who don't love dogs. Yeah that they're then obsessed with. Yeah. It's so fucking embarrassing |
| 1:27.2 | when you're at a party and someone has a house cat and you like try to win the cat over and then it |
| 1:32.6 | like doesn't like I just I feel like that has happened to me a few times. A lot of times I feel like |
| 1:36.7 | I do it successfully and it's like all about like the dance of like with dogs. It's pretty simple. |
| 1:40.4 | It's like you're like hey booby and then they get all excited. But this is a certain level of |
| 1:44.3 | hubris when requires to try to win over a cat. It's like testing the waters though. Just be like hey |
| 1:50.5 | I mean in some ways I mean that is a compliment. You're definitely someone who I don't give up on |
| 1:56.1 | anyone not a cat. Yeah but when you were a kid I feel like you were definitely is this correct |
| 2:01.9 | when I would say you know if someone says like this can't be done or you can't do it you were like |
| 2:07.6 | trying like I bet I can. Did you love a good challenge? Yeah. Slightly defiant. |
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