E428 Family Week Day 5 | Forgiveness Is A Selfish Act
15 Minutes to Freedom
Ryan Niddel
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🗓️ 23 June 2019
⏱️ 22 minutes
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Summary
No one views an event from the same perspective. The way we see the world is technically always true to whatever the current moment happens to be right now. So how does this apply to family? The way your parents or loved one’s see a situation is never going to be the same. Even if their intention is to do what’s best for you, you may not see it that way. Today we’re going to look into how forgiveness is actually a selfish act that is designed to release yourself from your past pain. Listen today as I provide several simple tools that will help you move on from past trauma.
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| 0:00.0 | The This is day |
| 0:15.0 | 15 minutes of freedom. I'm your host elite life optimization coach Ryan Naidel and today is day number five of the foundational family quadrant. This week we've covered |
| 0:30.3 | notes of appreciation, we've covered connection, we've covered all types of different things |
| 0:35.1 | and today we're going to continue down that path but in the vein of forgiveness |
| 0:49.0 | yes see I know without a shadow of a doubt you my friend have someone in your life that you hold a grudge against. |
| 0:59.0 | How do I know this? Well, because we all do, of course. We all have somebody in our lives that we feel like has done us wrong. Typically, at one point, it was someone very close to you. |
| 1:05.0 | That's how this works. |
| 1:07.0 | Friends become enemies. |
| 1:10.0 | Family seems to turn their back on us |
| 1:12.0 | and we have either a tough time or a new vision or a new goal. |
| 1:17.0 | I mean just think right now the people that have come in and out of your life in just the past five years. |
| 1:28.0 | The people that you swore were going to be in your life forever and they're just not. |
| 1:37.0 | And once you have that image in your mind of who these people are, pivot and get real with yourself about why they're gone. |
| 1:42.0 | Now the first thing you're going to say of course is, well because they did something. They did something to me. They stole from me. They |
| 1:46.7 | lied to me. They hurt me. They deceived me. And all these versions of truth are just that. They are true. I don't believe anything |
| 1:58.5 | that you just went through in your mind is a fallacy. I believe them all to be spot on. But I'd like to |
| 2:07.7 | encourage you to take a step back from the orchestrator of your life and an orchestrator of just that moment and turn into the observer. |
| 2:18.0 | And what I mean by that is in any situation, any conversation, there are actually four different people involved. |
| 2:25.0 | Now bear with me for a moment this might get a little dicey. |
| 2:31.0 | This might be the first time you've ever heard of something like this, but nonetheless it is true. |
| 2:37.4 | You see, if you and I are having a conversation one on one, there is my eye, right. There is my perspective of what is going on in this |
| 2:46.9 | conversation and it's mine. It's a combination of my past events in life, my belief systems, what I want the desired outcome |
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