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Walk-Ins Welcome with Bridget Phetasy

E329. Why Men Feel Lost Without Marriage - Conn Carroll

Walk-Ins Welcome with Bridget Phetasy

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🗓️ 13 March 2025

⏱️ 79 minutes

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Bridget sits down with Conn Carroll, author of Sex and the Citizen: How the Assault on Marriage Is Destroying Democracy, for a discussion about the history and purpose of marriage, why it's a fundamental part of what makes us human, monogamy vs. polygamy, how dating apps turn certain men into digital sultans, and how the decline of "I do" threatens everything from fertility rates to democracy itself. They cover ancient hunter-gatherer love stories, modern-day male purposelessness, porn and ga...

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All right. And with Khan Carol, everybody, welcome to Walkins. Welcome. Thank you for coming.

0:05.5

Happy to be here. Let's talk about marriage. My favorite subject. What inspired you to write your

0:12.5

book Sex and the Citizen? Sure. It's actually kind of a boring story. I was working for

0:17.2

Senator Mike Lee, Senator from Utah, and he was chair of something called

0:21.0

the Joint Economic Committee, which normally deals with even boring economic massues of gross

0:28.0

domestic product, unemployment rates, etc. But he wanted to take it in a new direction and address

0:33.9

social capital, a kind of idea that was around for a nomad of yours, was popularized by

0:39.2

Robert Putnam in his book, Bowling Alone. So they wanted to really kind of quantify as much as we

0:47.0

could what was social capital, was a growing, falling, what communities had more of it,

0:51.5

what communities had less of it. And so during the portion of that, that you know my job was to take all the research the staff members were

0:58.4

creating and turned it into tweets videos op-eds speeches etc so you know as a conservative

1:05.2

i had always kind of known that there was this large body of research that showed that

1:12.2

marriage has been official,

1:14.4

but I'd never really engaged with it or read it before.

1:16.3

And there was just so much more of it.

1:20.3

And coming from otherwise liberal sources that I had recognized,

1:22.3

it became interested in the subject.

1:25.2

And I wanted to read a history of marriage.

1:27.1

Like where did this institution come from?

1:28.0

How did it evolve?

1:33.4

So I went on Amazon and basically everything I found was either from a very liberal perspective and was not good or the conservative ones I found were laser-like focused on gay marriage,

1:41.0

which is which is not an unimportant issue, but really wasn't relevant until

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