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The Art Of Coaching

E321 | Practical Strategies for Setting and Managing Expectations

The Art Of Coaching

Brett Bartholomew

Health & Fitness, Business, Education

5642 Ratings

🗓️ 8 April 2024

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

"What a letdown! I expected more…" We’ve all felt this way when something fails to meet our expectations.  It’s one thing if it’s a product we bought off Amazon or an over-hyped movie, but what if it’s something bigger?  What if a misstep in communication hurts us professionally or negatively impacts a personal relationship?   Today’s episode is your how-to, practical guide to setting and managing expectations.  If done well, we can preemptively address potential misunderstandings and conflicts and allocate more of our resources where we need them most.   Over the course of this episode, we’ll discuss: The reasons setting expectations is critical from a psychological standpoint Practical steps to earn trust with new colleagues  Aspects to consider when establishing new boundaries in a personal relationship Speaking points you can use tomorrow with your team to jumpstart buy-in This episode was directly inspired by questions submitted by our listeners.  If you’d like to submit a topic for us to cover in a future episode, visit artofcoaching.com/question.  If you want a deeper dive into anything we do or want hands-on guidance on a personal issue, we offer live events and virtual one-to-one mentoring.  For options email us at [email protected] - we’d love to help! Today’s episode is sponsored by Momentous.  Let’s be frank, most supplements are BS.  The industry is full of overhyped charlatans that underdeliver products that do not work.  Not Momentus.  Their mission is to provide practical nutritional support for people who want to improve their health and fitness.  Their supplements go through the rigorous process of NSF certification, so you can trust what is on the bottle is what you’re ingesting.  They’re a longtime partner of ours for good reason - they believe in the same things we do.  Fundamentals NOT fluff.  Visit livemomentus.com/brett to SAVE 15%! This show is sponsored by Better Help.  Are you someone who’s social battery can run low?  Many of us struggle at setting boundaries and allow ourselves to get worn down, especially when we’re trying to help others.  Not recognizing when it’s time to seek help yourself can have dire consequences.  Luckily, our friends at Better Help can help!  They made it very convenient, as it is entirely online and suited to fit your schedule.  All you have to do is fill out a brief questionnaire and they’ll match you up with a licensed therapist who will listen and help you recharge.  Go to betterhelp.com/AOC and receive 10% OFF YOUR FIRST MONTH! Come join us for The Apprenticeship In Calgary, Canada June 22nd & 23rd!  Whether you’re a people pleaser that knows you need to be better in conflict, somebody who wants to improve how you interact with your staff, or a parent who wants to connect better with their kids, this event is for you!  We go over: persuasion techniques, power dynamics, how to control your emotions during a conflict - and most importantly, we do it in a fun way.  Rich with feedback and opportunities to connect with people from other professions, this hands-on learning experience is something you won’t find anywhere else.  Sign up before April 21st to take advantage of our Early Bird Discount and SAVE UP TO $200!  This will be our last trip North of the border for a while, don’t miss out!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey quick personal note here so I'd appreciate if you tune into this and maybe I shouldn't share this but I'd really like to.

0:16.0

Despite running a company that is largely focused on communication and understanding power dynamics and human interaction. I've

0:25.0

hauled short a lot. My wife and I have been together for 13 plus years. We get

0:29.3

an armance. We fight. I lose my cool sometimes in many areas of my life. And for a

0:35.5

long time I felt like that made me a failure. And then what I realize is it's

0:39.3

exactly what we talk about at Art of Coaching and Why Our Products exist. None of

0:43.6

us are ever going to be good enough at communication.

0:46.9

My doctorate doesn't mean that I'm going to be a perfect communicator, the fact that

0:49.9

I write books on this doesn't mean that I'm going to be a perfect communicator.

0:53.2

And if you already feel like you're good enough in your professional life, well then I just

0:56.7

ask you to consider if you're where you want to? Do you always show up for your kids the way that you want to?

1:07.2

I think if you're being honest, we all fall short.

1:10.0

And that's where our work can help.

1:11.7

We don't do a bunch of pine-the-sky solutions.

1:14.3

We're real people who have real flaws just like you.

1:18.0

But we take a research-backed approach and an experienced-let approach

1:22.0

to help you improve in those areas that matter most. So if you want to improve as a communicator, whether it's for your job, whether it's for your loved ones,

1:29.6

or whether it's for yourself personally, check out what we do at Artofcoaching.com.

1:33.6

We have virtual mentoring that you don't have to leave your house for.

1:36.8

We have live workshops where you can connect with other humans,

1:39.8

anything that sits at the intersection of relationships, leadership, or entrepreneurship, we have solutions for.

1:48.0

So join us. We're a bit of a group of misfits. We're imperfect, but I can promise you this.

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