E226 Breaking Down Marriage 101 With Dr. Alexandra Solomon

The Viall Files

Nick Viall

Society & Culture, Relationships, After Shows, Tv & Film

4 • 24.2K Ratings

🗓️ 20 January 2021

⏱️ 79 minutes

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Summary

Today we are joined but Dr. Alexandra Solomon. Over the last two decades, Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon has become one of today’s most trusted voices in the world of relationships. A professor, therapist, speaker, author, retreat leader, and media personality, Dr. Solomon is passionate about translating cutting-edge research and clinical wisdom into practical tools people can use to bring awareness, curiosity, and authenticity to their relationships. Her work on relational self-awareness has reached millions of people around the world. Dr. Solomon is a faculty member in the School of Education and Social Policy at Northwestern University and a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University. Nick and Dr. Solomon dive into a bunch of relationship topics including, how to handle a relationship in a “rut”, hook up culture, porn in a relationship, expectations of men in the bedroom, how to speak to your partner without judgement , and making sure you know your body so you can communicate to your partner what works for you sexually.

“ If there is one thing I have learned from 20 years of couples therapy, what matters so much to a man is how he looks in his partners eyes.”

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0:00.0	What's going on everybody welcome to another episode of the Vile files I am your host Nick.
0:20.8	I hope you guys are having just a wonderful day and a great week you know and thanks for
0:27.2	tuning in. Chrissy how you doing today? I'm doing great sounds like it together here in Montana.
0:36.8	We got a fantastic episode for you today Dr. Alexandra Solomon who is a professor at North
0:43.0	Western. A little props to our Amanda part of our social syndicate took a class of hers at
0:52.8	Northwestern a very popular class world when I'm class. We're just taking off the Northwestern stuff.
0:58.1	It's a third one it's a good school so you know uh yeah I mean it was a fantastic talking to Dr.
1:06.3	Solomon. She is an expert in the field of relationships and sex and like I said teachers
1:13.4	are very popular class at Northwestern and we talk about all things relationships dating hookup
1:18.1	culture. Kinks we have a you know a brief discussion of R.A. Hammer stuff porn. The role it plays
1:26.1	in relationships is it good is it bad I don't know you have to listen to find out but I'm sure
1:30.8	you guys will find this as interesting as I found it to have the conversation with Dr. Solomon
1:37.6	and it was a ton of fun so we always love having our experts really give us some expertise
1:44.1	on the things that we like to talk about on the show so thanks for tuning in don't forget to send
1:48.3	us your questions at asknickincastemy.com cast with a K uh send us your reviews we got some
1:54.2	always fun and exciting merch at thevowfiles.com I think that's it uh let's just uh get to Dr.
2:04.0	Solomon and until then I hope you enjoy Dr. Solomon thanks so much for joining so good to be with you
2:15.7	uh a very excited to have this chat with you uh obviously we we talk a lot about relationships
2:23.1	dating and sex on this show uh and uh it's so nice to finally have an actual expert I mean we've
2:30.9	had experts before but usually it's a lot I just say a bunch of crap and stuff and you know sometimes
2:36.6	it's nice to check in with people who actually know what they're talking about so thank thank you
2:40.9	uh for joining absolutely I was happy to get the invite obviously we have people here uh
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