Welcome back to the Antigram Journey. My guest today is Stephanie Burke.

She's a one on the anyagram. She's a mother and a wife and a daughter and a grandmother

and she speaks eloquently about keeping the world level and about keeping the big picture in mind.

I think you'll really enjoy our conversation.

Hey Stephanie, I'm so glad you're here to visit with me about being an anti-Ram one and relationships.

I'm glad to be here.

And you have so many relationships.

From my perspective, you're in a space where you have aging parents who rely on you for a lot and you're in those

relationships. You have adult children and you have all those relationships to manage.

You have two fairly new grandbabies

and those relationships to manage with their mom and dad and getting to be with them.

And I am aware that you have lots of relationships in relation to your church community.

That's a lot of people to be loyal to and to be responsible to and in some instances for,

how you managing all of that as a one

while critiquing yourself as you go along about how you could do it better or different?

Well, when I start my day, I usually start my day terrified at what's going to happen during the day or

concerned about how I'm going to meet everybody's needs and then I take a

breath and kind of start my day.

And if I have my day fairly structured,

then when the other stuff starts to happen,

I can deflect or deal with it and it works okay if I'm calm myself and most importantly if I've

taken care of what I perceive to the needs that need to be met around my household.

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