E218 Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It pt. 2
Pillow Talks
Vanessa & Xander Marin
4.8 • 2.6K Ratings
🗓️ 24 July 2025
⏱️ 61 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | My husband randomly takes his p-s-out and flops it around as a form of communicating that he is thinking about sex. |
| 0:07.5 | It gives me the ick. |
| 0:09.6 | Ah, the old flopperuni. |
| 0:14.1 | Is that the actual technique? |
| 0:16.0 | Yeah, the flopperuni. |
| 0:17.9 | An advanced initiation technique? |
| 0:19.9 | All men know about the flopperuni. |
| 0:28.5 | Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast. |
| 0:32.1 | We're your host, Vanessa. |
| 0:33.5 | And Zander Marin. |
| 0:34.8 | I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience. And I'm just a regular dude. |
| 0:39.3 | We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. |
| 0:45.1 | Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, |
| 0:51.6 | hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom |
| 0:55.8 | doors and so much more. |
| 0:58.1 | It's the sex education you wish you'd had. |
| 1:02.9 | We're back. |
| 1:03.9 | We're back today to talk more about the ick. |
| 1:08.4 | So if you missed last week's episode, we did a deep dive on getting the ick |
| 1:13.6 | in relationships, which is it really has been used more as a dating term. Like you're on your |
| 1:19.0 | second or third date with somebody and they do something like something small, but it just |
| 1:23.4 | feels weird. It gives you the ick. It makes you not interested in continuing to see them. |
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