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The Viall Files

E210 Ask Nick - Anger Is Loves Neighbor With Justin Long

The Viall Files

Nick Viall

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

3.826.3K Ratings

🗓️ 14 December 2020

⏱️ 91 minutes

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Summary

We have another extended version of Ask Nick for you this week as we are joined once again by the delightful, Justin Long. Will he tell one of our callers "he is just not that into you"? You will have to listen to find out so let's jump right into it. Our first caller is actively dating two people at once and thought that one would "fizzle" out but neither of them have. We then speak with someone who was dealing with the death of her father and needing the support of her boyfriend who was not showing up for her when she needed him most. Our next caller finds herself feeling constantly shamed by her boyfriend whenever things do not go according to HIS plan. A bigger dating issue comes up while chatting with someone who's original issue is that her boyfriend doesn't like it when she hangs out with her friends. Finally, a woman discovers her bi-sexuality when she realizes she has an attraction to her friend that she now is falling in love with and she is not sure how to tell her. 


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0:53.5

What's going on everybody? Welcome to a very special edition of Asnic Valfaus. I'm your host Nick. Justin Long is with us.

1:19.5

I think everyone's just really excited to hear you. Just say he's just not that into you at some point. Oh, you know, yeah, that's fine. I don't know. He may or may not be either way. Justin is as good as you would think he is at giving relationship advice.

1:39.5

Oh, thanks. I am. I wish I could follow it. I am that into you. I'm into this show. This is really exciting. I'm super. Did that send that since you're casting. I mean it. I'm really excited. I do that all the time. People often think like I don't sell it. I'm often low.

1:56.5

You go low energy like and and I'll say something and I'll be like, oh, that sounded like I'm a dick. I've noticed not that you sound like a dick, but that you go I do the same thing. I don't like to. Oh, my God, look at the guy Pete coming down, washing the windows.

2:11.5

You said a nice thing to my friend the other day on the phone and you paid her a very nice compliment and you I noticed that you went kind of lower because you don't you get kind of almost like a bash full of compliments. Yes. Do you not like receiving compliments.

2:27.5

I what's the weird question. I don't not in person, but I do like attention. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So I don't like to make a big deal about compliments. Yeah. I like to like brush it off. Yeah. You know, but yeah, I do that. I didn't read it. Read into it. Okay. All right.

2:48.5

But it isn't so nice to be you are. It's so nice to be here. Oh, my God. I'm sorry. But yeah, you guys are in for a treat. It just it felt if you for your fan of Justin, which I'm sure many of you are, this will feel very meta.

3:03.5

And if you hate me, maybe you'll just be indifferent to me. Honestly, if you do hate Justin, yeah, you won't after this episode. They still might they still might, but hopefully my goal is that they hate they hate me less. I have fun that has the podcast has helped me in that where people will be like a lot of like they list they tune into hate listen.

3:24.5

I have been transformed. Which is always it's hard to get that message. It's hard to convey that. But like it's the we talked about this last time you hear the kind of backhanded compliment. I used to hate you. Yeah. Yeah. Well, I hate you a lot less than I thought I would. Yeah, I know it will be and it's nice for you because I would imagine you get to control.

3:47.5

You have much more control over how you are seeing how you get to present your well, this is just me. Yeah, yeah. And so you know being all cut up. It's not there's not some producer like an ad Harris in the Truman show pulling strings. Yeah, so it's just me talking. I feel like it's an opportunity. I'm sure you do like with podcast. It's just like this is a way to just you know you and your brother talk and it just humanizes you and it must be extra refreshing for you having been through. Yeah, that other thing. Yeah, creating this persona of it isn't.

4:16.5

It is nice. Yeah, I bet. I bet. Yeah, I have found that when I do play when I you know because on this podcast you talk long enough that you can show all your sides. And it's one of those things when I when I

4:30.5

am the person they believe I am to be even on the podcast. I got them. Yeah, I get that. Yeah, because people have such strong preconceived notions that they are just can't they're projecting their weight. They're cherry picking. Yeah, but that's what's nice about what you do is because you you are very honest about your flaws and about the things that you've been through and I find that that's a very attractive quality and it's it's one that that makes you I think really good at this is that you you're accepting of your

4:59.5

strengths and your weaknesses. Thank you. Yeah, that's only a reason I am if I am good at this is that I just just personal experiences. It's always comes in from like it's not I always like

5:11.5

it's hard to get advice from the person who's only had one successful blissful relationship right. It's just like what are you doing your boyfriend cheats on you? Yeah, my boyfriend's amazing. Yeah, exactly.

5:24.5

Exactly. Tarda and it's interesting because often on the bachelor we talked about this the other day date people are so much less willing to it's harder to kind of show your flaws on when you I would imagine when you're being filmed and that's so rare to see on that show and maybe because they can exploit it they can exploit those

5:44.5

things when you are honest about you know, yeah, that's the hard part. Yeah, you lose creative control rights right. Well, I think we should just get to it. Yeah, you guys will really enjoy it. Don't forget to subscribe.

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