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The Art Of Coaching

E206 | How to Tell Your Partner You Want to Quit Your Job

The Art Of Coaching

Brett Bartholomew

Health & Fitness, Business, Education

5 • 642 Ratings

🗓️ 24 January 2022

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

You’ve been fantasizing about quitting or changing jobs for months and now you’re ready; Making that leap doesn’t scare you, it excites you. The thought of creating something from nothing or joining a team that’s building something from the ground up has driven you to go from fantasizing to finally pulling the trigger. But there is one thing about quitting the job that puts butterflies in your stomach and gives you pause… Convincing your spouse that now is the time.  In today's episode, we’ll break down this uncomfortable conversation and give you a simple framework so you can have a more productive discussion with your partner.  Liz, Brett’s wife, also joins the podcast and interjects her real-life feelings and experiences from when Brett had this conversation with her.   You’ll learn: How to formulate the conversation to relate to your spouse's experiences  How to time the conversation so it doesn’t come as a surprise to your spouse  Why you can’t simply explain your way through this conversation  As a bonus at the end of this episode, Brett and Liz use role playing to practice one permutation of this conversation so you can see how the conversation might play out. Quick shout-out to our podcast partner LMNT. LMNT is our go-to hydration product. With no sugar and no additives, LMNT is how I manage to maintain my voice when speaking for 16 hours and traveling every other weekend of the year. Right now, they are offering you a free 8-flavor sample pack (just pay $5 shipping) if you go to drinkLMNT.com/aoc! Today’s episode is also brought to you by Dynamic Fitness & Strength. Dynamic is our title sponsor and our go-to equipment guys. If you need anything for your home or full-sized gym- they offer the most affordable, customizable, durable equipment on the market. Also our partner Momentous: For those looking for the cleanest, best tasting protein and supplements on the market, Momentous is my choice. Their products are for athletes as well as individuals who just want to ensure they are getting enough protein in their diet. Code: BRETT25 gets you 25% off your first order.  Finally, we are hosting a brand new event, the Art of Coaching Speaker School this May (28-29th) in Atlanta GA. If you’re interested in improving your speaking skill for any situation or capacity, this is the place to do it. We’ll be breaking down how to create a powerful message, how to tailor it to a specific audience and make sure it’s not only heard, but understood. Check out artofcoaching.com/speaker for more!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Art of Coaching Podcast, a show aimed at getting to the core of what

0:10.8

it takes to change attitudes, behaviors, and outcomes in the weight room, board room,

0:15.7

classroom, and everywhere in between.

0:18.6

I'm your host, Brett Bartholmue.

0:20.0

I'm a performance coach, keynote speaker, and the author of the book, Conscious Coaching.

0:24.5

But most importantly, I'm a lifelong student interested keynote speaker, and the author of the book, Conscious Coaching. But most importantly, I'm a lifelong student

0:26.6

interested in all aspects of human behavior

0:29.2

and communication.

0:30.6

I want to thank you for joining me,

0:32.0

and now let's dive into today's episode. Today we are doing something new on the podcast. We have introduced a new feature where you guys can send in questions

0:45.9

and regardless of the theme, the topic, the problem,

0:48.6

anything that you are dealing with,

0:50.3

we are gonna address them on the air.

0:52.4

This is our way of trying to find more ways

0:54.2

to give back to you.

0:55.5

As you guys know, we do a combination of interviews,

0:57.7

we do solo episodes.

0:59.2

The biggest thing is, is we try to hit on points

1:01.5

that are often swept under the rug in coaching and leadership discussions.

1:05.0

There's all these things that can be talked about tactically,

1:07.0

but there is a wide variety of things

1:08.7

that go on outside of your work environment

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