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The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

E187: World’s No.1 Matchmaker: How To FIND And KEEP Real Love!: Paul Brunson

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

FlightStory

Society & Culture, Business, Education

4.613.2K Ratings

🗓️ 17 October 2022

⏱️ 113 minutes

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Summary

Paul Brunson is the host of Married At First Sight, and a world-renowned expert on relationships and human connection. Paul spent many years wondering how to get people to love and accept each other, before realising he had to get them to love and accept themselves.

In the conversation Paul really unlocks that it’s connection to each other’s values that makes a last relationship. To be at peace with other peoples values, you have to have your own figured out first.

One of the most illuminating, original and surprising experts on relationships who’s ever shared his wisdom with us, Paul is just one of a number of world-leading black thought leaders and celebrities were sharing with you this Black History Month.


Topics:

  • Early years
  • Why match making?
  • The influence your parents had on your work
  • Attachment styles
  • Men not being honest
  • The science of dating
  • How do we have important, tough conversations?
  • Oprah reached out to you for a tv show?
  • What did you learn from Oprah?
  • Out of all your clients who struggles with being alone the most?
  • Hugging
  • The importance of compatibly
  • Sex
  • Do we know what we want?
  • How hard do we have to work to find love?
  • How honest should we be on the first date?
  • What are you struggling with in your relationship?
  • What re you working on now
  • The last guest question


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Transcript

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0:00.0

I think most of us would do the first date completely well.

0:02.9

We set ourselves up to fail.

0:05.2

And the reason why is because...

0:07.8

Is such a...

0:08.6

My completely true, this is...

0:11.8

Paul Brunson.

0:12.9

The world's most influential matchmaker.

0:15.6

He's got a hit show on an Oprah's network.

0:17.6

My advice that you pay...

0:19.3

This, you may never have heard before.

0:21.8

This is my expertise as a relationship science.

0:24.8

And the beauty of science is that

0:26.7

if you can change the formula,

0:29.0

you change the result.

0:30.9

So if you are someone who is in a relationship

0:34.6

and you're unsure how to communicate,

0:36.5

there's certain things that you could change.

0:38.2

Tell me what it is all.

0:39.5

It seems so simple,

0:41.5

but it literally changed my marriage.

0:44.2

So we're terrible when it comes to making any type of rational decision

0:50.7

around our love life.

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