E142: Matthew Hussey: The Secret To Building A Perfect Relationship

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

FlightStory

Society & Culture, Business, Education

4.6 • 13.2K Ratings

🗓️ 12 May 2022

⏱️ 97 minutes

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Summary

Matthew Hussey is one of the world’s most renowned experts on relationships and human connection. He’s not only helped thousands of people be more ready to meet the love of their life, but also how to have a meaningful relationship with them when you do.

In this conversation Matthew doesn’t just offer advice, but opens up about how he’s approached relationships in his own life. He freely admits mistakes he’s made, where his approach went wrong, and what he’s learnt.

This is some of the most mature and reflective relationship advice I think I’ve ever heard. Because Matthew doesn’t just specialise in how to prepare for the good moments, but how to deal with the bad ones as well.

Topics:

Your insecurities
How do we know when our ego is driving?
What makes people feel disconnected
The positive impact of personal responsibility
The value of lessons learnt from previous trauma
How to control emotions to bring yourself to a place of peace
Learning to show vulnerabilities
Why do partners trying to change us?
Are you scared of being bored in your relationship?
Do we have to be in the right place personally for a successful relationship?
The last guests question

Matthew:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9HGzFGt7BLmWDqooUbWGBg

https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/

Watch the episodes on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheDiaryOfACEO/videos

Sponsors:

Huel - https://my.huel.com/Steven

Craftd - https://bit.ly/3JKOPFx

Transcript

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0:00.0	Could you do me a quick favor if you're listening to this please hit the follow or subscribe button
0:03.6	It helps more than you know and we invite subscribers in every month to watch the showing person think of James Bond in real life
0:09.5	Fairly says anything not a hint of humanity. This would be a terrible person to have a relationship with and we've been taught that
0:17.4	That's what women want
0:19.4	Number one YouTube channel in the world for dating and New York's time to best sell an author Matthew Hussie
0:24.8	Let's begin we have to dispense with this idea that the one exists someone becomes the one by what we build with them any
0:32.8	Commitment long-term requires true effort. I had an issue with my head and my ear it created the darkest moments of my entire life
0:42.6	I'd always found whatever was going on in my life. I could fix it
0:46.5	Couldn't fix it
0:49.8	If I removed it what would I remove from Matthew Hussie?
0:52.2	Imagine that you're not being judged on anything but how great a chef you are
0:58.9	We spend so much of our lives mourning our ingredients
1:02.4	Don't aspire to have the best ingredients aspire to be the best chef
1:07.9	So without further ado, I'm Stephen Bartlett and this is the Diro of a CEO USA edition
1:13.4	I hope nobody's listening but if you are then please keep this yourself
1:25.6	Matthew before we started recording we were having a conversation about how the thing that gets to your glory in your own words
1:32.1	Can often be your downfall and it always tends to be the case that the start of everyone's journey
1:37.5	Especially when I sit here with people that I consider to be anomalies like you
1:40.5	There tends to be some kind of anomalous
1:44.8	Situation or trauma or exacerbating factor that they can point to and say that was probably
1:51.2	The poke from life or the thing that happened in my early years that resulted in me becoming the man I am today
1:57.6	Have you been able to identify exactly what that is in your own life?
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