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We went to Dubai to play against Pakistan and I dropped a pretty regulation catch down

like so and just looking for the ground to swallow me up and get me out of here, I just

finding it too tough in a way and of course as a professional sportsman you never want to admit

that you need a break or you need to be left out of the team but at that sense it came with a

lot of relief because I knew something had to change and I'm in a way you know, I felt like I

shouldn't be selected and sort of there's just through performance I think, you know, I just felt

like I wasn't warranting my place in the team. The version of myself that isn't as good is when

I sort of try and please people, I try and think, you know, try and do what I believe is what other people

want me to do, sharing a dressing room with with men your whole life, it's a lot of your eyes are

quite close books, having two children now who have no idea really what I do, you know that certainly

gives a great perspective they just you come home or you get off the field and you've got a video

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