E1127 - Ask Nick - My Husband Won't Change Diapers
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
3.8 • 26.3K Ratings
🗓️ 18 May 2026
⏱️ 112 minutes
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Summary
Welcome back to The Viall Files: Ask Nick edition!
Our first caller cut a man off after 5 perfect dates and thinks that might have been a mistake. Our second caller's husband says cruel things to her on purpose, and she's debating leaving him. And, our third caller has a 40 year old married coworker that's hitting on her and wants advice on how to set a boundary without making it uncomfortable.
"He should know better."
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
00:13 - Caller One
37:16 - Caller Two
1:11:45 - Caller Three
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | You're crazy. |
| 0:03.0 | Hi, I'm Sarah. |
| 0:15.0 | I'm 25 and I cut him off after five perfect dates, but I don't know if I should have. |
| 0:22.1 | Five perfect dates. |
| 0:23.9 | Tell me about these five perfect dates. |
| 0:27.4 | So I met him on Hinge as one does. |
| 0:29.6 | And we went on five dates. |
| 0:32.2 | He planned them all out. |
| 0:33.2 | We had fun on them. |
| 0:34.4 | He was funny, smart. |
| 0:35.6 | He's 28. |
| 0:36.2 | I'm 25. |
| 0:41.2 | So I liked the age difference. After the fifth date, |
| 0:47.8 | he didn't plan out the sixth date and he had planned out most of the others. I planned out like a couple of them, but he was good at planning ahead. And then after the fifth one, I noticed him |
| 0:53.3 | texting back like a little bit slower and not planning the next one. And then after the fifth one, I noticed him texting back like a little bit slower |
| 0:55.4 | and not planning the next one. And I just felt like I, I like felt a shift, even though I hadn't |
| 1:02.1 | met, even though I hadn't seen him in person. And so I didn't want to end up spiraling like I do |
| 1:09.4 | with other guys. So I texted him. |
| 1:11.3 | Slow down first. You had met him in person on these five dates, right? Yes. But after the |
| 1:19.9 | fifth date, you hadn't seen him and you told yourself that he was pulling back. |
| 1:28.5 | Yeah, exactly. |
| 1:29.5 | Okay, all right. |
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