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The Viall Files

E1100 Ask Nick - He's Dumping Me Because I Got The Job

The Viall Files

Nick Viall

Relationships, Society & Culture, Tv & Film, After Shows

3.826.3K Ratings

🗓️ 30 March 2026

⏱️ 113 minutes

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Summary

Our first caller is reeling from a situationship breakup that hurts more than her actual divorce. Our second caller is caught in a messy gray area: are girl code rules being broken? Do they even apply here? And our third caller had to choose between her relationship and a move to Miami for a great job opportunity… Did she make the right call?

"He will realize one day that this was his choice"

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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
01:30 - Caller One
28:45 - Caller Two
1:08:04 - Caller Three

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Don't forget, VAL Files Plus now offers ad-free episodes for all Vile Files episodes,

0:05.8

including Ask Nick, Reality Recap, and Going Deeper. Plus, if you love Ask Nick,

0:12.1

you will absolutely love our Ask Nick updates, where you get updates of your favorite calls,

0:17.4

our deep dive on all your favorite reality recap TV shows, and our pop culture

0:23.3

roundups where we talk about all your favorite pop culture topics that we didn't get to

0:28.0

in this week's episode, plus deep dives on our going deeper guest and so much more.

0:32.5

All I have to do is go to Val Files Plus, and you will be lucky you did.

0:40.7

What's up, everybody? We have a very exciting announcement for all the ask nick audience out there we have new instagram and tic talks specifically for

0:47.3

ask nick so if you want to avoid all the pop culture and reality tv content that we're putting out

0:53.4

there and just focus on all things,

0:55.8

relationship, dating, interpersonal relationships and just ask Nick content.

1:00.9

Just please give us a follow.

1:02.7

It's Ask Nick Viol on Instagram and TikTok.

1:06.7

So give us a follow and enjoy.

1:09.1

We'll be glad that you did.

1:11.0

All right. Let's get to our first caller, but not before you go on and give us a follow.

1:31.9

Hello. How's it going? Good.

1:32.8

My name's Hannah and I'm 36.

1:35.7

And my question is, why did the ending of my situation ship hurt worse than the ending of my actual divorce.

1:45.1

Okay.

1:46.7

Where do you want to start?

1:47.7

I guess I could start with, you know, my divorce and kind of the relationship I had

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