E108: Parenting That Heals w/ Erica Komisar

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🗓️ 25 April 2024

⏱️ 94 minutes

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Summary

Today I welcome back Erica Komisar, Psychoanalyst and Parent Coach, to pick up where we left off from our last conversation about the importance of being present to our children at their earliest stages. In today’s fascinating conversation we unpack more best practices for parents to support the development of their children in the most critical stages of adolescence. We also discuss the best way to pursue relationship with your teen, how to select the right school for your child, how to minimize your children’s trauma from divorce, and how to heal relationships with your parents as an adult. I also ask up some of your most burning questions for Erica from our last episode.

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0:00.0	You know most people do not go into therapy Lila when they're adults because they didn't feel loved.
0:05.3	Most people come into therapy because they feel their parents didn't understand them.
0:09.5	Somewhere along the way we got confused that the way to create successful children was to force cognitive
0:16.0	learning into them at a young age. And then when they get older, we infantilize them.
0:20.2	We treat them like their babies and we baby them. We have to reverse that back.
0:24.4	I think what most parents think is I'm going to be there when I want to be there and my child has to be there on my terms.
0:31.7	The way that you get close to your children is by being around
0:34.9	enough you catch the wave.
0:36.5	Hello everybody, welcome back to the Lila Rose podcast today we have a major treat we're going to have
0:46.4	Erica Commissar back on the podcast you may remember Erica Commissar as our special guest a few months ago.
0:53.3	Her episode went very viral online and we got thousands and thousands of messages and feedback
0:58.2	from many of you talking about how her words truly touched your life and for some of you even
1:02.4	changed your life.
1:03.8	Our conversation was about the power and the importance of mothers, especially mothers being
1:09.0	there for their very young children and how in the crazy modern world it is valuable so
1:15.9	valuable for mothers, fathers and families to make sacrifices or hard choices to
1:21.0	ensure that mothers can maximize the time that they are there
1:24.9	with their young children. Today we're going to have her back on the show to take questions.
1:29.6	I've received hundreds and hundreds of questions for many of you that you would like to ask
1:33.6	Erica so we're going to actually be asking her more detailed questions about her
1:38.0	perspective on this as a psycho analyst we're also going to talk about how to heal wounds that we may have with
1:45.3	our children or how to overcome difficulties we may have in parenting our young
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