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How's it going?

Good. What's your name?

I'm Ashley.

How old are you, Ashley?

32. How can I hope? So I dated a guy about five years ago, broke up just because of circumstances, mostly due to distance. We've dated other people in the last five years. And in between relationships, we've kind of always reached out to each other and checked in on each other to see what was going on, see our situation status.

And we've always been in other relationships when the other person is single.

So it kind of has always flip flopped back and forth.

Most recently, after my most recent relationship, I reached out to him.

He told me he was seeing somebody and I wished him the best and I left it at that.

But I've noticed lately that she's been watching my Instagram stories here and there while not following me.

So kind of feels like there's some unresolved thing there.

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