E1022 Ask Nick - I'm Sleeping with an Engaged Man
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
4 • 24.2K Ratings
🗓️ 27 October 2025
⏱️ 98 minutes
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Summary
Our first caller is sleeping with an engaged man. Our second caller's mother is getting married at the same time as her and doesn't know what to do. And in a very special mediation call, our third callers are a couple who aren't sure how to rebuild trust in their relationship.
"There are good people who do bad things, it's not because they're evil, it's because they're able to justify it."
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Timestamps:
(00:01) - Intro
(01:11) - Caller One
(30:33) - Caller Two
(46:18) - Caller Three
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| 0:00.0 | This episode is sponsored by MintMobil, and we have an especially exciting announcement. |
| 0:04.6 | We want to hear your scorching hot reality TV takes, and that's why we've partnered with MintMobil |
| 0:09.3 | to open a hot take hotline where you can leave us a voice message and give us your reality |
| 0:13.5 | TV takes. Give us your hot takes, thoughts, and theories, and we'll read and react to the best |
| 0:18.1 | ones on an upcoming episode of reality recap. |
| 0:21.2 | All you have to do is call 1855 Mint, TLK, or if you prefer the numbers, that's 855-646-8855. |
| 0:28.4 | And leave us a voicemail. |
| 0:29.5 | Again, just call 1855 MintTLK or 855-646-8855 and leave us a message. |
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| 0:59.9 | You're crazy. |
| 1:11.8 | How's it going? |
| 1:17.7 | Good. I'm Amber. I'm 27. And the guy I'm hucking up with is engaged. What do I do? |
| 1:22.9 | Break up. Why are you hooking up with an engaged man? |
| 1:26.9 | So it's been a situation ship for the last five years. |
| 1:29.9 | Okay. |
| 1:32.6 | So is he cheating on his fiancé with you? |
| 1:34.0 | Yes. |
| 1:34.9 | Okay. |
| 1:38.8 | Explain to me why you think that's okay. |
| 1:39.9 | I don't. |
| 1:40.4 | Okay. We have been really good friends for the last five years looking up, and then he started dating her about three years ago, and it just continued throughout that. |
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