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Resilience Development in Action: First Responder Mental Health

E.91 How Your Attachment Style Can Lead To A Secure Relationship With Marc Sholes

Resilience Development in Action: First Responder Mental Health

Steve Bisson

Substance Use, Mental Health, Psychology, Education, Counseling, Social Sciences, Honest, Science, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

5.021 Ratings

🗓️ 8 March 2023

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Send us Fan Mail In this episode, we talk with Marc Sholes, a therapist in New York City. He has 35+ years of experience helping people get healthy, tidy up their world, and straighten out their lives. He wrote a book called "Resetting Your Romantic GPS" which talks about attachment style and how it plays a factor in the partner you seek. During the interview, we talk about a variety of topics on this subject, including how to change your attachment style, vulnerability in relationships, as...

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0:00.0

Hi and welcome to finding your way through therapy.

0:05.3

I'm your host, Steve Biesel.

0:07.7

The goal of this podcast is to demystify therapy, what can happen in therapy, and the

0:13.6

wide array of conversations you can have in therapy.

0:17.2

I also talk to guests about therapy, their experience with therapy, and how psychology is present in many places in their lives.

0:25.6

I also share personal stories.

0:27.8

So please join me on this journey about therapy.

0:33.1

Hi and welcome to episode 91 of finding your way through therapy.

0:36.8

I am Steve Biso. If you haven't listened to episode 90, it's way through therapy. I am Steve Bissell.

0:38.0

If you haven't listened to episode 90, it's a little bit of me talking about my history, particularly working with the criminal slash community justice field.

0:45.9

So hopefully you can go listen to that and know more about where I come from in regards to my work.

0:51.1

But on episode 91, we're going to talk to Mark Scholes. Mark Scholes is a New York

0:55.5

psychotherapist with 35 years of experience, helping people get healthy, tidy up their world,

1:00.9

and straighten up their lives. He is the author of the book, Reset Your Romantic GPS,

1:06.0

while you steer towards the wrong partners and how to change for the better, which is available

1:10.8

at all bookstores

1:11.8

and it will be attached in my show notes. So if you want to go and buy it, that would be great.

1:16.2

It talks about attachment style, psychological force we develop in early childhood and the influence

1:20.9

of every emotional choice and decision we make. Mark, areas of expertise include couples therapy, marital challenges, anxiety, depression, employment difficulties, sexual dysfunction, and eating disorders.

1:34.5

He's also a board member of the National Institute for Psychotherapies, a leading training institute for psychotherapists, and a former associate editor of psychoanalytic

1:46.3

perspectives, a journal of integration and innovation. Looking forward to our conversation because

1:51.5

attachment styles is something I really enjoy. So let's get to it. Hi, and welcome to episode

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