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Reclaiming with Monica Lewinsky

Dylan Mulvaney

Reclaiming with Monica Lewinsky

Prufrock LLC

Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Education

4.81.4K Ratings

🗓️ 24 February 2026

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

This week on Reclaiming, Monica welcomes actor, author, and creator Dylan Mulvaney for a deeply candid and surprisingly joyful conversation about identity, art, and the radical act of choosing joy in the face of public hate. Dylan retraces her path from a musical theater kid with a secret to documenting her transition for a billion people in her viral "Days of Girlhood" tik tok series. She reflects on surviving the “beergate” controversy, and how that traumatic moment of becoming a political symbol pushed her not to retreat, but to reclaim her story on her own terms—first through a spiritual ayahuasca journey, and then on stage in her one-woman show. Along the way, Monica and Dylan find profound common ground on the dizzying experience of surviving a global scandal, the specific pain of being turned into a caricature by the media, and the quiet, determined work it takes to piece your narrative back together. Expect laugh-out-loud moments about the absurdity of fame, a shared belief in humor as the ultimate survival tool, and even some breaking out into song mid podcast. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

I still have things like that happen on occasion.

0:03.4

I'll be uninvited to something.

0:05.0

I never want to be in a room where I am not wanted, though.

0:07.8

I think what is sad is that in order to survive, some of these things become normalized for us.

0:15.8

And this is the life that we're, this is, you know, I was, I was thinking back to that, you know, saying

0:21.6

that I didn't know when people said my name who they were talking about. And now I'm like,

0:28.1

oh, no, I'm Dylan fucking Mulvaney. That is so cool. You are Monica fucking Lewinsky. Hi.

0:46.2

I'm so excited you're here.

0:47.6

It's happening.

0:48.3

It's happening.

0:49.1

I know.

0:49.8

People who have been listening to reclaiming since the beginning, so like 50 plus episodes ago,

0:55.6

will remember that when Alan Cumming was on, he was saying that you were the perfect guest

1:02.0

for this show, which you are, and finally now we've been able to make it. I think he might have

1:08.0

called you, we, Dylan Mulvaney. Oh, we did. We lassie. We lassieie. We lassie. We, Dylan Mulvaney. I think if you had told me that, like, when I was like 10 years old watching Spy Kids, I wouldn't have believed you. And it's also so funny because I think everyone has a different version of Allen coming that they love in their heads. And so mine was very much spy kids. And then it was Romie and Michelle,

1:28.5

which is like my addiction. And hopefully we're getting a second Romeo Michelle movie.

1:32.2

I mean, that's what it sounded like at his walk of fame star unveiling thing. But that's where

1:39.3

we finally got to meet. What a moment where in like he's up there on this stage giving a speech and I

1:45.4

looked over and we made eye contact and we waved to each other. And I was like, oh, this is the

1:50.3

perfect place to finally connect. Yeah, yeah. Well, let me properly welcome you to reclaiming Dylan.

1:57.2

Thank you. Yes, I remember that moment. And I was, because we, we've been like social media friends. Yes. For a while. And I've wanted to be on this for a long time. I know. We've been in talks to try to make it happen. And now feels like a really perfect time. It does. In many ways. You are, you are in a very exciting place.

2:18.8

Exciting seeming to me. Yes, no.

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