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Welcome to Query.

Hey, Query Rose, Cammy here.

Well, Dylan Marin is my guest on the show today.

He has a podcast that's called Conversations with People Who Hate Me.

That's a huge monster hit, and now that podcast has become a book.

It's a beautiful book about all the things that he learned making that podcast.

I got to say, I was very nervous to interview Dylan because his podcast is terrifying to me.

But I think we had a great chat, and I love feeling like I am so excited to be friends with him,

which is what I proposed during the show.

Hey, speaking of proposals, I proposed that you see me on April 16th in Lawrence, Kansas, at the Free State Festival,

or on May, let me get the date.

28 in Vancouver for just for laughs, Vancouver, or, and this is brand new, brand brand new.

If you live in Los Angeles on May 6th, I will be part of the Netflix comedy festival playing Dynasty typewriter.

So I've got a show in Lawrence, Kansas.

I've got a show in Vancouver.

I've got a show in LA.

And that's it, actually, for now.

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