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Hot and Bothered

Dump Him: Alyssa Cole

Hot and Bothered

Not Sorry Productions

Books, Feminism, Intersectionality, Arts, Relationships, Society & Culture

0.00 Ratings

🗓️ 23 July 2019

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Haven't finished the first writing assignment? No problem! We know writing takes time, so you'll have two weeks for each of Julia Quinn's assignments. In the meantime, Vanessa and her friend Julia Argy will buy you some time and turn to Reddit romance questions to offer their unsolicited (but solid) dating advice. This week’s advice? Dump Him.


As Vanessa and Julia consider how power and money work negatively in real dating relationships, Vanessa turns to award-winning romance novelist Alyssa Cole to explore why it is she likes the power imbalances in Cole’s love stories - as well as feminism, bailing on dates, and the restorative pleasure of masseuses on planes.  


Send us your own romance advice questions for future episodes on our website at https://www.hotandbotheredrompod.com/advice


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0:20.0

Spoke Media. Not Sorry Productions. I'm Vanessa Zoltan and this is hot and bothered. Do you know what the best part of a writing assignment is? An extension. So every other week to give you a little extra time to do your assignments, we will answer a

0:25.2

Reddit question and speak to experts from the field of romance. Your assignments from Julia Quinn

0:30.5

will come on alternate weeks, and in between you'll find one of my best friends

0:34.9

Julia Argy and me talking about love.

0:38.9

Julia, what are we calling the segment this week?

0:41.6

Jump him.

0:42.4

Yes.

0:44.0

Dump them, right?

0:48.0

Yeah, gender neutral.

0:50.0

No, actually it's usually dump him. Men are the worst? Yeah, but I don't want to put

0:56.7

ourselves in a box. Right. Or if you have multiple men you have to dump both of them.

1:00.7

True. also true.

1:02.8

So that is the voice of Julia Argy.

1:04.8

Julia, why don't you tell people who you are?

1:07.8

I work for Not Sorry Productions where I answer emails and look at spreadsheets.

1:13.0

Wow!

1:14.0

And do this?

1:15.0

I want that job.

1:17.0

You gave me that job.

1:18.0

That's amazing.

1:20.0

So something that we have discovered while working on this podcast is that romance novels are responding to real life.

1:27.4

They are like the fantasy version of real life.

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