Driven By Shoulds & Expectations And Two Options To Rid Yourself Of These Energy Vampires

What Drives You with Kevin Miller

Kevin Miller

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🗓️ 22 May 2024

⏱️ 18 minutes

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In this short episode I want to uncover the insidious role of expectations and shoulds that often make up much of our personal and cultural drive. And, it shouldn’t. Whatever you are driving after that is fueled by a should will bear bad fruit. One of three things will happen. One, you’ll achieve the objective, but with bitterness and exhaustion. Call it collateral damage. This is what leads to burnout. Two, you’ll achieve the objective but find no fulfillment and you’ll just wonder what’s next. Or three, you won’t ever achieve the objective because your heart is not really in it, and you’ll feel guilt and frustration because you know you’re capable. But right now, even as I say this, you’re likely to feel trapped, as you have built your life now, around a lot of should’s and expectations. I understand. I’ve done it too. There are two options to rid yourself of these energy vampires. That’s the show. Got a comment or question about an episode? Want to ask a question about your drive? Email me. I don’t want to just talk to you here, I want to talk with you. [email protected]. Head to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code KEVIN and depending on the model receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off! Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/kevin Go to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial. Available Nationally, look for a bottle of Heaven Hill Bottled-in-Bond at your local store. Find out more at heavenhilldistillery.com/hh-bottled-in-bond.php Go to https://prolonlife.com/kevin and get TEN PERCENT off Prolon Life’s 5-day nutrition program For comprehensive financial news and analysis, visit YahooFinance.com Sign up for AromaTru's Insider Club and today you'll receive a FREE Waterless Oil Diffuser and a FREE lemon eucalyptus oil - that's over $200 in savings. Head to aromatruorganics.com/kevin to take advantage of this exclusive offer. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Welcome back friends. I'm Kevin Miller and thanks for joining me on what drives you as we get to the root issues of personal transformation and remove the real and perceive obstacles to our growth so we can drive further and
0:14.9	faster with less effort and enjoy the ride as we reach the destinations that
0:20.0	give us true fulfillment. In this episode, it's called
0:24.8	Driven by shoulds and expectations.
0:27.8	And two options to rid yourself of these energy vampires. So in this episode I want to uncover the insidious role of expectations and should
0:38.0	that often make up so much of our personal and cultural drive, and just shouldn't to use the word whatever you are
0:46.8	driving after that's fueled by a should is just going to bear bad fruit and you know one of a few things is going to happen one you're going to bear bad fruit. And you know one of a few things is going to happen. One you're
0:54.3	going to achieve the objective you're going after but with bitterness and
0:57.4	exhaustion. Call it collateral damage if you will. This is what leads to
1:01.6	burnout. Two you're going to achieve the objective but find no fulfillment and you'll just wonder what's next.
1:08.0	Or three, you won't ever achieve the objective you're going after because your heart's not really into it and
1:13.5	you'll feel guilt and frustration because you know you're capable of doing it.
1:18.3	But right now even as I say this you're likely to feel trapped as you built your life around a lot of
1:24.4	should and expectations and I understand I have done that so often as well.
1:29.2	So there's two options to rid yourself of these energy vampires. That's the show. And hey, as I talk through this and you're thinking
1:36.8	about it and you've got questions, ideas, concerns, let me know. K Miller at Kevin Miller. co. email me I'll respond to you personally K Miller
1:46.9	at Kevin Miller dot co. All right well drive with me a moment as we consider two ways to
1:51.7	get rid of expectations and shoulds.
1:54.7	Friends, I'm pretty candid about my lack of financial prowess.
2:01.4	Money in numbers are fairly Greek to me so I need a lot of
2:04.5	guidance. One of my closest friends is a wildly successful wealth manager and I'm
2:08.2	working on some financial literacy and just continually seeking guidance. So I ask you to check out Yahoo Finance.com.
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