Drawing Your Line In The Sand
The R Spot with Iyanla
Shondaland Audio and iHeartPodcasts
4.9 • 908 Ratings
🗓️ 4 January 2023
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Summary
This week, two callers are unsure if they should put up with behavior they’ve been unhappy with from their partners. The first guest feels like her partner has lied to her about being divorced, and that’s a huge no-no for her. Then, another caller believes her partner’s kids and ex-wife are the problem in her relationship, but Iyanla thinks the issue is with her judgement of the situation. Iyanla guides both callers to learning how to express their boundaries with their partners.
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Executive Producers: Sandie Bailey, Alex Alcheh, Lauren Hohman, Tyler Klang & Gabrielle Collins
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| 0:00.0 | I amla your host for this journey. I was a hopeless love a holic but just could not get my love to work. |
| 0:11.0 | Then after a series of heartbreaks and deep heartache, I finally got clear about |
| 0:18.0 | what love is and what it is not. I want to share some of what I've learned about lover holism. |
| 0:25.4 | Welcome to the R spot, a production of Shandaland audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. My question for you today is how do you know when it's time to go? |
| 0:49.1 | Sometimes you know it's time to go, but there's a part of you that wants to work it out. |
| 0:58.0 | Sometimes you know it's time to go, but you don't have any place to go to. |
| 1:03.0 | Sometimes you know it's time to go. |
| 1:06.0 | But you just can't make that choice. |
| 1:10.0 | So you default to, let me work it out. |
| 1:14.0 | Sometimes that works, sometimes it doesn't. |
| 1:18.0 | If you think it's time to go because of what you experienced before and you're trying to avoid it again, it's not |
| 1:27.0 | time to go. If you think it's time to go, but you still see a glimmer of hope, something that you can work out, work through, and if the |
| 1:38.0 | other party is willing, then it's not time to go yet. If you think it's not time to go yet. |
| 1:43.0 | If you think it's time to go, |
| 1:46.0 | and the other person isn't willing to do the work, |
| 1:50.0 | start packing. |
| 1:52.0 | We've got a little bit of summer all of that today. Take a listen. |
| 2:00.0 | Greetings beloved. How are you? Welcome to the R spot. |
| 2:05.0 | I am wonderful. How are you today? |
| 2:08.0 | I am blessed and ready to discuss with you your relationship, challenge, issue, issue dilemma whatever it is that you're facing so |
| 2:15.9 | give me the low down okay so back in 2020 right when COVID started my church had an online small group the |
| 2:25.5 | gentleman that I'm seeing was on the small group and he said that his mother and |
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