I was honestly having a word of myself there thinking, have I got anything to bring to this subject?

And my only, I've drawn, I like you, I can't draw.

So the last things I drew or painted at school were half a tomato in oil and a pencil sketch of a slice of bacon.

And that's all.

I've got nothing else to say.

Is it normal that I'm already thinking about childcare?

I mean, can I apply for it while I'm on maternity leave?

Oh, and how many childcare hours will we actually get?

And will they do messy play at nursery?

Because I still haven't got that paint off the sofa.

Does anyone else have all these questions?

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