Drama Triangle: Getting out of the Blame Game — Alyson and Tripp Lanier

The New Man

Tripp Lanier

Business, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement, Entrepreneurship

4.6 • 643 Ratings

🗓️ 16 July 2025

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Do you feel like you keep getting stuck in the same old arguments? What drains our aliveness more than work? And what if the thing killing your sex life had nothing to do with sex? Today Alyson and I reveal one of — if not the — biggest killers of aliveness, intimacy, and trust. It’s the drama triangle. We explore what it truly is, how it keeps us from finding solutions, and what you can do to pull yourself from its trap. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2025/07/drama-triangle COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

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0:00.0	Before we start the show, I want to thank the thousands of you, the thousands who have read.
0:06.6	This book will make you dangerous. Many of you have told me that the book's unique way of exploring
0:11.1	fear, confidence, and purpose has had a lasting impact, that it's much easier for you to get
0:17.2	clarity and direction about what really matters and what you want to do in this lifetime.
0:23.1	It's also amazing to hear that quite a few of you have read it multiple times and even bought
0:27.7	copies for friends. So thank you again. Just in case you weren't aware, I created a free companion
0:33.6	video course for the book. And in these videos, I walk you through the big takeaways and practices
0:38.9	from each chapter. And I even cover some extra stuff that's not included in the book.
0:43.8	Information on how to access the course is in newer versions of the book. And if you own an older
0:48.6	version of the book and you don't know how to access the course, just hit me up via the contact
0:53.0	form at triplinear., and we'll get you all
0:55.7	set up. And one last thing, if you're one of the thousands who have already read the book,
1:00.4	please consider leaving an honest review on Amazon so that others can decide if it's right for them.
1:05.5	Again, thank you so much for reading this book will make you dangerous, and now let's start
1:10.0	the show. I've had clients telling me now let's start the show i've had
1:13.0	clients telling me he's like you and i had the conversation i went and did this stuff and she was still
1:16.8	upset i think i fucked it up yeah and i was like you didn't fuck it up they're still gauging getting it
1:22.2	right means that person was happy at the end of the conversation and that's not it all as well and
1:27.1	peaceful and right and it's like no that's not it. Always well and peaceful and...
1:28.0	Right. And it's like, no, that's a band-aid. You're not addressing the core thing. So learning to
1:33.8	shift from what's comfortable to what's truth. Like, let's get to the core of this. Then that's when
1:40.8	things can start to transform. You are listening to the new man beyond the macho jerk and the new age wimp.
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