Dr. Zach Mercurio on How Leaders Can Help People Feel Seen | EP 610
Passion Struck with John R. Miles
John R. Miles
4.7 • 779 Ratings
🗓️ 13 May 2025
⏱️ 59 minutes
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Summary
- Why mattering is a survival instinct—not a luxury
- How invisibility and disengagement are symptoms of a “mattering deficit”
- What truly great leaders do to make people feel seen, heard, and needed
- The science behind “reflected appraisals” and how small actions affirm significance
- A simple, powerful framework: Noticing, Affirming, Needing
Whether you're leading a team, a family, or your own life, this episode will change the way you understand human motivation—and how to ignite potential by making others feel they matter.Click to connect to Zach Mercurio - https://www.zachmercurio.com/Catch More of Passion Struck:
- My solo episode on Why Hustle Culture Is Toxic (And How to Break Free From It)
- Can't miss my episode with Homaira Kabir on How You Overcome the Tyranny of Perfection
- My episode with Susan Cain on What is the Happiness of Being Bittersweet
- Listen to my interview with Thomas Curran on Breaking Free From the Perfection Trap
- Catch my interview with Matthew Weintrub on the Psychedelic Origin of Religion
- Listen to my solo episode on Why You Should Avoid the Trap of Effortless Perfection
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Support the Movement: https://startmattering.com/. Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Coming up next on Passionstruck. |
| 0:02.2 | Belonging is like you're being picked for the team. |
| 0:05.4 | Belonging is feeling welcomed, accepted, and connected into a group. |
| 0:09.0 | Something like inclusion is being able to play in the game, being able to play an active role in the group. |
| 0:16.4 | But mattering is feeling that the team wouldn't be complete without you. |
| 0:21.5 | Mattering is feeling significant to individuals in the group. |
| 0:25.5 | Welcome to Passionstruck. |
| 0:26.9 | Hi, I'm your host, John R. Miles. |
| 0:28.8 | And on the show, we decipher the secrets, tips, and guidance of the world's most inspiring people |
| 0:34.8 | and turned their wisdom into practical advice for you and those around |
| 0:39.3 | you. |
| 0:40.3 | Our mission is to help you unlock the power of intentionality so that you can become the best version of yourself. |
| 0:47.3 | If you're new to the show, I offer advice and answer listener questions on Fridays. |
| 0:52.3 | We have long-form interviews the rest of the week with guests |
| 0:55.5 | ranging from astronauts to authors, CEOs, creators, innovators, scientists, military leaders, |
| 1:03.0 | visionaries, and athletes. Now, let's go out there and become Passionstruck. Welcome to episode |
| 1:09.1 | 610 of the Passion Struck podcast. Whether this is your |
| 1:12.9 | first time tuning in or you've been with us from the beginning, I am so grateful you're here. Together, |
| 1:18.7 | we're building a movement grounded in one powerful idea. You don't have to settle. You can live |
| 1:24.2 | with intention, lead with purpose, and make what truly matters, matter most. |
| 1:29.7 | Before diving in, I've got something exciting to share. |
| 1:33.0 | We just launched the Passion Struck clothing line, and to celebrate, we're giving away free |
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