Dr. Viviana Coles reveals why modern dating is chaotic and how many matches men are dating at once... (S4 E4 "What's Sex Got to Do With It")
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🗓️ 9 April 2026
⏱️ 25 minutes
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Summary
Dr. Viviana Coles, spills on the modern dating scene, revealing why men are secretly seeking coaching to avoid the “f-boy” label and reveals on average how many matches men are dating at once! Miranda’s “sex strike” takes on a different addiction and leads to a shameful moment that we can all relate to!
Plus, she drops a hot take that dating apps are ruining connection altogether—and that it’s time to get back to meeting people in real life.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. |
| 0:02.5 | Guaranteed Human. |
| 0:05.5 | Hi, I'm Kristen Davis, and I want to know, are you a Charlotte? |
| 0:12.9 | Welcome back, everybody, to Are You a Charlotte? |
| 0:15.9 | Part two. |
| 0:17.2 | Today, we have a super fun and interesting guest. |
| 0:20.4 | Her name is Dr. Viviana Coles. |
| 0:22.4 | She is a licensed marriage and family therapist and a certified sex therapist. |
| 0:27.9 | We're going to talk about episode 404, what sex got to do with it. |
| 0:32.4 | Thanks for joining us. |
| 0:33.9 | Here we go. |
| 0:34.6 | I love Miranda storyline. |
| 0:36.2 | It's not that involved, but it's so relatable. |
| 0:39.5 | And it leads to her eating from the trash, which is one of my all-time favorite Miranda things ever |
| 0:47.2 | to do, ever. Okay, it's not just a Miranda thing. You know, you know you have done, you have |
| 0:54.0 | eaten out of the trash,ian um i mean i might |
| 0:57.0 | have it's hard to think of because i've got my kids right and so like i would need them to be in bed |
| 1:02.7 | do you mean like if they're in bed and not watching because you can't do things like that in front |
| 1:07.4 | of the kids really but like i feel like sometimes I throw like candy out or things |
| 1:12.5 | you know and then I'm like oh why did I throw that away I want to eat that you know but but I it's it's |
| 1:18.5 | it's rare it's rare I have to say but I think it's so so adorable like her whole storyline is about |
| 1:27.0 | how she's on a sex strike which is really funny and she's |
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