Dr. Doug Weiss - Porn And Sex Addiction Are More Complex Than You Think
ManTalks Podcast
Connor Beaton
4.8 • 591 Ratings
🗓️ 10 July 2023
⏱️ 68 minutes
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| 0:41.1 | When you share your feelings, you're connecting to your spouse and you're getting better at identifying and communicating your feelings. That's the skill you can have. But if not, you will do men tend to do what we're good at. And if you're not good at something, you don't do it. Well, you don't get good unless you practice. But if you don't practice, you stay not good. And then so your wife is not hearing your heart. You're not hearing her heart. And listen, if you want your woman to talk to you and you want her to open up sexually, you got to learn how to feelings. All right, Dr. Weiss, welcome to the man talk show. How are you doing today? You know, I'm doing fantastic, Connor. How are you doing, man? I'm doing good. Yeah, I'm doing very good. I got my workout in this morning, played with my boy. I got to swim, got to work out, got to do treadmill. Man, I'm ready to rock and roll. |
| 0:54.6 | Awesome. Awesome. That's good stuff. I know I normally don't do like early morning podcast for whatever reason. Usually I record in the afternoons. We're doing like the first thing this morning, which is, which is kind of nice. I've got my coffee. |
| 0:58.9 | This is a good way to start today, you know, having a, having an in-depth conversation. |
| 1:03.4 | So before we talk about what we're going to talk about, I'm going to start with the big question, which is tell us a story about a defining moment in your life that made you |
| 1:07.8 | who you are today. |
| 1:09.2 | Well, especially, you know, what we're talking about, you know, I grew up, I was conceived |
| 1:14.1 | in adultery. |
| 1:14.8 | So my mom got divorced. |
| 1:16.4 | Then she married another guy and then they got divorced. |
| 1:19.4 | And then, you know, it was maybe-ish, 12-ish. |
| 1:23.7 | And now in my house, we, we, I never saw a book. |
| 1:26.8 | There was not a book in the entire house. Okay. But my mom walks in with a college textbook on human sexuality. So this is about, you know, 350 pages of academic sexuality, human sexuality book. Now, no idea how she got this book, but she hands it to me and she says, |
| 1:45.1 | Doug, I think you should know this. Well, I don't know what, I don't, I don't remember reading any of it, |
| 1:49.2 | but the pictures really were helpful and got me into the whole pattern of, you know, medicating myself |
| 1:56.9 | through sex, through pornography, through masturbation, and, you know, getting into that, |
| 2:01.5 | uh, ritual of, of doing that. So that was a defining moment because I probably wouldn't have |
| 2:05.7 | like come up with that by myself. That's fair. That is very fair. I, I agree with that. |
| 2:10.9 | I mean, it's interesting because one of the things over the years, I've been working with men for |
| 2:16.9 | a decade now and, you know, |
| 2:18.5 | guys from all over the world come into our ecosystem. |
| 2:23.2 | And one of the interesting things, one of the things that we'll often do is we'll, we'll ask a question, |
| 2:28.6 | like tell another man, you tell the guy that you're, you know, working with the first story |
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