Dos and Don’ts of Texting Someone You Want to Date with Erika Ettin
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 19 July 2022
⏱️ 68 minutes
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Summary
I’m joined by dating coach Erika Ettin aka @alittlenudge to break down everything you need to know about texting when it comes to dating. From messaging on the apps, to planning the date, following up after the date, and communicating between dates, we’re giving you the full Texting 101 college course in this episode. We answer listener questions about texting for a month before meeting up, determining whether or not someone is starting to slow fade you and what you should do, and how to handle when someone overshares and is a little too comfortable opening up before meeting IRL.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:07.7 | Hey guys, it's Lana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people. |
| 0:13.1 | You guys, I'm sitting here cracking up, but I am having a day. |
| 0:19.8 | First of all, I went to a Jonas Brothers, like, private show last night, |
| 0:24.8 | and it was at Madison Square Garden. It was like 2,000 people total. And it was the coolest |
| 0:30.7 | experience ever. And, like, Jake was there and Christina was there. And Sass was there. It was, like, |
| 0:34.4 | my, like, my best Jonas friends and friends and like people were there |
| 0:37.7 | and it was like truly like my happy place and it was so special and such an amazing night. |
| 0:43.5 | So I'm very tired from that a little bit hungover. |
| 0:47.3 | And I had people over before. |
| 0:49.2 | We had some snacks and stuff cleaned up for the most part, like super cleaned up. |
| 0:52.6 | Maybe there was some crumbs. |
| 0:53.5 | But I also did |
| 0:55.2 | a huge deep cleaning of my apartment two days ago anywho i'm sitting at my kitchen table |
| 1:00.4 | about an hour ago and i looked down and about two inches from my bare foot was the biggest |
| 1:08.0 | cockroach i've ever seen in my life ever. |
| 1:12.7 | And I, I've always thought that, like, I'm not that afraid of cockroaches. |
| 1:17.3 | You know, I did a summer program at UPenn once. |
| 1:20.5 | And, you know, anyone who's had experience with Philly or Penn knows that cockroaches are, |
| 1:26.6 | they are a fact of the area there. And they were like, I remember, this was in high school, but they were like in the shower, in the corner of the shower, they'd be there like on the bathroom sink and stuff. And, you know, it was all like shared common space. So it never really impacted me that much. I was just like, ew, like, ha ha, weird, whatever. |
| 1:45.5 | But like it didn't bother me. |
| 1:46.6 | Like spiders, those really bother me. |
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